I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months. We're both late 30s and we met online while looking for the person to settle down with. Things have been going great and I definitely see a future with him but now there is a problem. We live in different cities so we spend from Sat afternoon to Mon morning together while we're apart during the rest of the week. My guy has a busy working schedule and several interests, so when we don't see each other he keeps minimum contact. He always replies to my texts but doesn't initiate much, which makes me feel a bit insecure. To make the problem worse he just finished a climbing course so he's decided to go climbing on Sundays with the other people in his group. I don't know if he plans to do this every weekend but he wants to do it regularly, which means less time for us. I'm confused because when we are together he seems as into me as always and he keeps telling me how he loves every minute we spend together, so how can he be ok with seeing me less now? How can we build something solid if we only see each other once a week with little communication in between? I plan to talk to him but I'm not sure what to say. I don't want to limit his freedom but I think we need to make some adjustments if we want to make this work. Any suggestions?