Recent content by Ignis

The most important thing in overcoming a fear is the desire to want to overcome it in the first place. Due to some unfortunate events when I was younger, I developed Aquaphobia (The fear of water) that prevented me from doing literally anything to do with water. No baths, no showers, no...

I really hope all this effort is worth it.

Criminally underrated band from Japan, what an absolutely gorgeous song.

First, why is that your problem? Second, why should you have to put up with harassment because of him losing his job and not being able to provide for his family? There are other jobs out there anyway. Whatever comes from this is just desserts regardless, the actions that you take are the...

Welcome, hope you find some friends here. Very relateable, I'm a chronic workaholic. I prioritize work over pretty much everything in my life, so much so that it's become almost an escape for me from real life. I'll hide away from the scary stuff in life by just piling on more work. One of the...

I don't think this is a men specific thing, I think you see it that way because of your attraction to the opposite gender. I would argue exactly the same thing of women, more than likely because of what I'm attracted to. Reality is that it's likely a human thing I think. Who you like is who...

To be honest, probably not. You likely take care of yourself now in a way that you didn't back then, or you dress different, wear your hair different. You've taken steps that if you'd have done back in school would likely have a similar effect. Hindsight is 20/20 as they say after all. It...

Go to your boss. This is way worse than what I was thinking, this is almost textbook sexual harassment. Doubly so if you've even hinted at telling him to back off and he hasn't done so. It's not going to end well between you and him going to the boss and he's probably gonna say something along...

Flirtatious person... That's... Unfortunate in this situation. Still, my advice stands, you should absolutely be very forward with him and say that you're not interested in pursuing anything with him in a workplace, unfortunately you can't just go full scorched earth, since you work together...

Thanks :) I like you as well. I am just a guy who comes through once every... What, 4 years or so? Posts some wisdom and then vanishes again. I mean glow ups are a thing, there were so many girls I knew when I was in high school that were... Okay, average, even below average and then after high...

You need to be forward with them, in the same way they're being forward with you. Boys are dumb, we can't pick up signals easily when you're not interested But, when the WORKPLACE gets involved, you REALLY need to be forward about it, especially because things can get pretty messy. Now there's...

'Tis very unfortunate but it's something of a double standard (Not that I personally have that much of an issue with it, there are double standards everywhere). The conversation is always centered on women and the concept of purity but very rarely is it looked at from the other lens which is...

I think there is a lot of truth to this. I mean, personal experience here (And yes, PEMN is certainly a thing but I'm not the only one to experience it) I had like a REALLY long dry spell between 23 - 30. The further I got from 23, the more women started to cautiously ask why? Is there...

So I had like... A bit of a meltdown when I was reaching 30 (I say a bit of a meltdown, but in truth I was like actively supernova for pretty much all of 29 - 30) I felt like I needed to have everything under control and sorted, I should have a house by now, I should be making more money by...

The purpose of life as humans is to procreate. That is all we're here to do. Outside of that, it is totally on us. We are free to do with our life as we choose. So, for that reason, I say the purpose of life is to do whatever makes you happy and to enjoy YOUR life as best you can. Your life is...