Recent content by Jesse

I don't believe that you don't care about girls anymore. I think you're trying to convince yourself that to ease the pain of loneliness. I can't say I'm right, but I know that I used to do that and sounded a lot like you. Making new friends is a great way to find a girlfriend. One of the best...

This can be a tricky situation. There are things that you like about this girl, but you also have noticed some things you're kind of afraid of. One of the things you can do would be to go ahead and go out with her, but let her know you don't want anything serious right now. Tell her you want...

One of the first things you have to do is realize that any past experience of failure must be disregarded. Each day is a new day and each new person you meet has no idea of your past. You can have a what other people have- you can have an awesome relationship. You can have companionship and...

I would gladly continue this conversation in pm's. I think we can have some productive results.

You're a victim of your own irrational logic. Even if all you want from a woman is sex, telling yourself that no woman is attracted to you is irrational. I just learned in my psychology class today about a study that was done. In the study, women were shown pictures of men that they found to be...

Yeah none of us are perfect, we just need to accept ourselves and realize there are plenty of people out there who will like us for who we are no matter what. If we have that attitude we can be less fearful about talking to new people. :)

It's a lot better to ask for a girl's number or email than to hope that she gives it to you. I know it may be tough right now, but you can't allow yourself to think this was your only chance to be happy with someone. There are so many women out there I'm certain you'll find one you like just as...

Wow that video was awesome! That is really helpful. I need to do a lot of research about gardening and preserving food. My goal this summer is to build an earth bag shed. I will use it to store canned food in. The shed will serve as practice for building a home. It will have an electrical outlet...

No that's not what I'm talking about. I've learned in psychology that there are unconscious things that men and women notice about people's physical features. These biological cues can trigger sexual arousal unconsciously in either gender. There is no thinking involved in this, it's all...

No problem man. No don't keep walking after the name exchange lol. Ask her what she's taking in college. Make a brief little conversation about that. Talk about what you're taking. It's probably best not to have a really long conversation with her at first. You could end the conversation by...

You don't need an excuse to talk to her other than the fact that you're interested in getting to know her. If she doesn't make eye contact you will have to be more direct. Stop her in the hallway and ask her what her name is. You could make the comment that you thought you recognized her on...

Looks don't exactly start relationships. I didn't start dating the person I'm with based on looks. We do evaluate people instantly when we first see them, but we can't think that evaluation is what determines our dating eligibility. I mean, sure there are people out there who will judge you...

Wow that would be cool. I'm not sure how I'd go about raising fish.

I have seen a lot of people who are convinced that nobody would ever give them a chance in regards to dating based on their perception of how they look. I think that it is far past time to address this and get past this issue. I was once nearly incapable of dating. This was because I had a...

Yes. I don't want to rely solely on solar power. I know there are some affordable windmill options for supplemental power. I'd like at least 3 acres of land, but up to 5 would be perfect. Yeah when I try to tell people about living off the grid they compare me to an Amish person. It really...