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    Dating websites - do they work ?

    This exactly happened to me. I joined eharmony as a free member and answered my bf's questions back and forth. Finally at the last part I couldn't respond to his message or view his picture because I wasn't a paying member. I just had a feeling like I wanted to reply to him so I signed up for...
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    Dating websites - do they work ?

    I never had a boyfriend or even went on a date before. I just turned 33 this year. I tried eharmony in january and started talking with someone. Had a good feeling about him and liked him a lot. Took a crazy chance and finally agreed to meet him in person after texting every day for a month...
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    What has been said to you about your singledom?

    Here was an offensive one... "So when WAS the last time you went on a date?" And she put a big emphasis in her voice like...'**** it must have been forever' I didn't answer her and said "let's not talk about that". It was more like she was curious in a making-fun type of way, instead of...
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    Questions for the Women

    For being too quiet
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    Mean neighbors - adjacent condo property residents

    I have awful neighbors also. There is a house directly behind us who throws backyard parties sometimes multiple nights per week. They have a loud sound system in the backyard, they invite 20-30+ people, they even bring a DJ occasionally. The parties can go on until 3am. My dad called the...
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    Looking for some advice re dental work..

    I am very suspicious of dentists because of this reason. Who knows if they are making these things up and trying to bring in more money for their practice by doing work you don't really need? You probably do need some crowns since they are all suggesting the same thing though. I would probably...
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    What's your go-to...

    I watch an obscene amount of movies when there is nothing else to do. Also getting into a game on the computer or ps3 can distract me pretty well. The worst is when I go online and start buying things. :/
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    Neighbourly relations.

    I wouldn't bother with her if you have to bend over backwards and accommodate her all the time. Should be a near 50/50 give and take. You shouldn't have to walk on egg shells.
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    You know your lonely when

    When you feel disappointed that nobody says hi to you as they walk by, and you keep looking at them waiting for it but they still don't notice you. And this is after you went on a trip together the past week.
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    Strangers who feel the need to tell you you're shy

    Does anyone ever get tired of hearing strangers tell you "you're shy"? It's as if they assume you never heard it already from the 200 people who told you before. As if a person who's 5'0" tall wants to hear "you're short" all the time... We get it, we know already. The older I get, the less shy...
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    rejected for 30 years has bred extreme low self esteem

    it happens both ways.... do guys go for the average or below average girll? not always. they are worshipping the beautiful women. it's just the way of the world
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    Relationship experience = better partner?

    I would assume so....you learn things by trial and error, get to practice, get better. But it also has to do with a person's character and willingness to give
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    The only women I attract are in relationships

    I have the same problem finding friends too and I'm a girl, not overweight or ugly looking. The only few "friends" I've made in my school program are the ones I've met during clinicals or sat by in class. We went on a school trip event for a few days and I made a couple more friends just by...
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    Am I TRULY a lonely individual? Or… (LONG)

    7... Lonely and Lazy. It's good you have a routine for yourself instead of just staying in bed all day or staying at the computer all day (I had done this one for a while). But I think you lack some ambition to change your life, to go to school, to get a job, etc... And I understand because...
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    In one word. Post your current mood.

    Hungry
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