Does anyone ever get tired of hearing strangers tell you "you're shy"? It's as if they assume you never heard it already from the 200 people who told you before. As if a person who's 5'0" tall wants to hear "you're short" all the time... We get it, we know already.
The older I get, the less shy I feel. I am just quiet. Not a scared quiet, I just talk when I actually have something I want to say, and if the person is actually listening. It's to the point where I don't even defend myself or explain it to them because their minds are made up to put you in that corner. And I don't care what they think anymore, I find it exhausting to bother.
It's not really a problem to solve...just a rant. Am I the only one who feels this way?
The older I get, the less shy I feel. I am just quiet. Not a scared quiet, I just talk when I actually have something I want to say, and if the person is actually listening. It's to the point where I don't even defend myself or explain it to them because their minds are made up to put you in that corner. And I don't care what they think anymore, I find it exhausting to bother.
It's not really a problem to solve...just a rant. Am I the only one who feels this way?