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Hi Moon! I'm 30, M. I'm a newbie as well (and was a little nervous of the age thing at first too). So far it's been a great place to connect with similarly afflicted folks :P All in all, it's a lot more fun than a bunch of people being lonely together, though. I laugh a lot when I'm here...

Turns out I'm an INFJ... Sounds a lot like me in some ways but not in others. Perhaps not surprisingly, the I, N, & F ratings were only about 3% greater on the dominant side. The J on the other hand was a wash. So I guess I'm like 53% INFJ and 47% ESTJ. INFJs are the smallest portion of...

30, Male, Chicago, IL

Hey eh? You listen to Lif? Nice! I've currently got on: Artist: Aesop Rock Song: None Shall Pass Album: None Shall Pass Genre: Hip-Hop

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Plant them I'm a late addition so this might have been asked, but... Would you rather find the cure for: Cancer or AIDS

Sorry to hear things are rough. I'm not one to patronize or tell you what to do, but if you're interested, I'm happy to lend my perspective. I had a similarly contentious relationship with my folks at a young age. As I got older, though, I realized that they really were doing what they...

I think Steel pretty much made my list for me... Nice work, man. But just 'cause I love to play along, here's my own: She must: Be faithful Be intelligent (not necessarily degreed, but well read and curious) Be artistic Be driven to succeed in her chosen field Be physically active Like...

Artist: Common w/ Kanye West Song: Southside Album: Finding Forever (by Common)

Thanks Naleena, that makes a lot of sense. I'm admittedly something of a ham, especially when I'm nervous. I use up all my confidence saying 'hi,' after that I'm all stumbling nerves and bumbling words, so I probably have a tendency to dish out compliments too quickly... I mean well, but I can...

Yeah, I have to admit, I'm a pretty confident guy most of the time but there's simply no way I'm walking into a group of dudes and starting a conversation with the one lady they're hanging with. That sounds like an invitation to "take it outside" and that's just not how I roll... :D

Ghost asked some good questions. And thanks, ladies, for your insightful answers. It's still frustrating watching women, many of whom are lovely and intelligent and whom we would love to date, go for jerks... and it's a little painful to think that we of the decent mold will only become viable...

Romie asked some good questions so thought I'd throw in my two cents. I'm speaking here for myself and my group of close buddies... we've discussed these things ourselves actually... but I don't presume to speak for all men... just the awesome ones :) We do hang out in pubs & clubs. And we want...

Wow. Thanks everyone. I only have sporadic access to the internet (one of my neighbors has wireless and I can occasionally catch a signal... don't tell... but it's not real reliable) so I just saw all your replies. I'm really flattered at the amount of responses. Feelin' better already. So...

Hi everyone. This is my first post. I've read a few of the others from folks that have become members recently and it seems like a friendly place. Really, I guess that's what I'm looking for. Not necessarily a cure or even an answer, just a friendly place. My story's pretty basic: lonely...