Not to harp on this but I think you will have to consider going back on your pledge and either putting her in a nursing home or some sort of a assisted living. It won't get better. It isn't also completely a selfish or not issue. At a certain point you won't be able to handle the situation. ...
Cripes. I remember having to care of my dad who wasn't all there (along with mom) and it is a hell that I wouldn't wish on anyone. Is there any reason she isn't in a nursing home?
You shouldn't be consigned to that.
My mom was similarly obnoxious about not letting anyone in to help then...
Another problem I have is that I am not really allowed to talk about my work. I suppose I could with people on a one on one basis but I can't post what happens on facebook... I can't really discuss it anyplace online unless in vague terms and if I do talk with someone outside of work I risk THEM...
Everyone has assumed that the wife was "innocent" -- completely not the case. That is on those who assume facts not in evidence.
If you and your religious belief think its wrong to hate someone, that is your belief. I myself don't agree and I think we have spun back too far on the "don't...
He said he looked up my posting history and that I suffered from excessive regard. That is called an "insult". That is an unprovoked "attack" and he should go back to his hole and stop popping out to take cheap shots.
When you respond to someone who attacks you first that is called "self...
Sorry to say --- >>>> "acting". To this day there are a lot of people I hate for not helping me when I needed it and will drop a dime on who think I am their BFF. Recently I discovered that my bully's wife is sick and I asked about her condition to a friend and she told me *not good* and I...
Because HR is stupid and needs to do things to justify their job. In general HR probably would prefer to not deal with bad behavior.
But make no mistake... because I am tired of seeing it...hostile work environment alone is NOT illegal. Hostile work environment is a term used with regard to...
I am sorry Alex... I disagree completely. Hostile work environment is not a basis for a law suit. Hostile work environment is ONLY connected to sexual harassment. At least in the US. If your friend lucked out doing this. She lucked out. But I have TONS Of law suits in front of me that are...
Well it depends on what you did. My enablers would find out they did something wrong and trump up a mistake I supposedly made so that there could be a blow up and then they would slip in that they made an error too. When I wanted to not show up to their parties (which no one wanted to attend)...
I think it is far worse when you are trapped in the circumstances were you have to get poked. I used to work with a bully and the thing was... all the people that worked with me, saw that the way to gain favor and keep the bully off them, was to throw me under the bus... or, trump up some sort...
I was bullied for 10 years. We both work in the same place but I no longer work for him. I go to lunch every day at 11 AM to miss him in the cafeteria and I asked my bosses to "divorce" me from any association with him. They did. My work is suburb. Now he can't get to me so he helps a colleague...
Hi:
Thanks the well wishes. But I was trying to be funny more than sad.
I want you all to know that I had a banner b-day. I received:
- 4 e-mails from dentists I haven't used in years.
- 3 e-mails from retailers
- 4 e-mails from on line retailers
- 3 e-mails from random message boards or...