Recent content by Lostnfound

Belive me I've been trying to work this out from the start and still holding on to vows in sickness and in health but looks like she doesn't want things to workout. I was all alone when my dad passed away and always felt alone in relationship telling myself and everyone she isn't feeling ok let...

Thankyou for putting things in perspective. now i can see more clearly how my life has been screwed from the start and i kept on ignoring all red flags which has led to this.... It's sad but can't do anything about it. I guess she didn't deserve the love i gave and she never reciprocated it back.

Thanks for your support the follow up is she has stopped answering my calls it's day 5 and parents are beating around the bush. So I think it's over from other side..iam guessing. Should I just wait and watch ? I wanted to meet her and go checkup but i don't want to anymore my heart is broken...

Indeed it is a volatile situation and her codependency on parents is making it worse and she is not willing to work on our relationship at all. I think it's more to do with untreated and uncared for depression she had before marriage and this fact was hidden from me and family till it erupted...

Guess we all learn the hardway but it's always good to have support from experienced wisemen like yourself. What do you mean brace for impact iam already impacted. Should i be more worried/ prepared / depressed? It is scarry already. Agree with you 100% - how in heaven's can i make it evenly...

Thanks for the support. I've never seen migraines soo bad that's it's almost everyday. Sometime if she doesn't want to do anything she fakes it too which i found shocking, i read a note she penned down in my diary. I had plans to travel with her but couldn't do it because of this. Extremely...

Thanks for the support.That's true but if it feels kind of one sided and you feel lonely, you tend to dwell on why and what went wrong? to which I'll never know the answer and just have to make peace with myself.

I do want to help her but i don't think she wants help and likes her comfort zone and keeps getting angry stops talking for days at times and iam worried like hell. I've done all that i could do, read soo much about depression and migraines that she has, I've been trying to figure out thing. now...

Hi, my wife had a extremely bad depression episode during covid lockdowns and has been on medications and not improving ever since then. i got to know she had depression before we met but didn't tell me about it earlier and stopped taking medicines back then. She wanted to live with her parents...