Recent content by Solace

I echo Kamya's sentiments. When it's no longer a choice it becomes draining. To answer your question, though, I do enjoy being alone. Some weekends I just want to stay home and put things in order, make some cards or write stories or read. I especially enjoy it on stormy nights like these. I...

It goes without saying there are probably a lot of different reasons for chronic loneliness. For me, I think it started because I was very close to a few friends and then I lost many of them. I learned at a young age the people I thought would be with me forever could withdraw emotionally and...

Oooh I love the picture, it's a very neat plant. Sounds scary getting lost. But i'm glad you found it in the end :D

I tried "People as attractive as you shouldn't be out on the ice. It's dangerously distracting." all I got was a blank look.

Thanks guys! *hugs everyone* I love all the balloons.

I love that song... The Smiths rock on! I know you weren't really looking for a common fan though... Maybe someone will revive something within you. They say love is a spark. Maybe something will catch fire and light something within you... even though it is dead cold right now. Hope...

This afternoon

If it is, you have to forgive yourself. If it isn't, forgive yourself for feeling that way. But I don't think it is your fault. Sometimes people just get sick. But you don't have to stay sick... It'll take work to get where you want to be, just like everyone else on the planet will learn. It's...

I know exactly what you mean, and i've been there. Sometimes depression just happens... it's not your fault it's just something that comes upon you. But there are things we can do to discourage it from settling in. Please don't hurt yourself. I got caught up with self-harm and 2 years later I...

it hurts. Badly. When you're lonely, there's something big missing from your life and it's hard to be happy.

I have come to that realization too... But I have also come to the realization, that in being open with the people who are safer, I learned how to be open. I learned how to express myself. Years later, I am begining to be open in a positive way with a (select) few people. Had I not been open...

1. I went to class 2. practiced piano 3. Did laundry 4. Woke up early 5. did some dishes

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I often feel... separate, too. Let me tell you... the depression lifts, sometimes, even against your own will. Sometimes it stays against your will. It is a force of it's own, sometimes. But there are things you can do to encourage it to stay or to go. My depression lightened a good deal...

6,656 days old. I am missing someone. Today I was out with friends having a good time but somewhere part of me was searching every face for someone I am missing. I felt this tugging in my heart. In the back of my mind. A loneliness like grief. I pulled out my phone. I felt I this nagging...