Recent content by timtune

well, if it makes you feel better, i"m48, been in 4 serious relationships in my life including 2 marriages,living together and in my current relationship which has my gf and i in 2 different places for various reasons so what we have is complicated, very sad at times, very lonely at times and...

had a good chat with my fitness trainer friend yesterday who knows us both...she;s going to get me out, get my mind onto other things.i'm looking forward to it. worked on my gal's house last night, getting it ready to paint the trim this weekend..after i did that, she made us bbq steak...

wow..that is so helpful..funny how little in my 48 years including 3 prior serious relationships (and 2 marriages) i've learned..actually quite sad..you are correct in that i do over analyze how things go. i'm very analytical by nature..and that i need to find something else to do when i'm not...

awwwwww...think a lot of us feel that way,for what its worth.

wow..great thoughts, folks..thank you so much. she took me for lunch today and we talked a bit about my expectations and hers. this morning, i had texted her to ask if she wanted to get together tonight..she said needed another couple days alone time. i am so not used to someone who could...

thanks for that, vanilla..that's how i'm feeling. i should mention ..and meant to that she is on a few dating sites with a profile that's basically "looking for a friend to hang out with and maybe more if we click" type post. we talked about her having a profile up and i didn't ask her to take...

thank you all

only the recent history is important to telling of my tale but suffice to say we both went through marriage breakdown together starting in november..she is separated from her husband who moved out 2 months ago, i'm divorced from mine and moved out 3 months ago. we have said "i love you" to each...

i think about the next lonely day ahead..and wake up dreading each day

don't i know that.i dread weekends and all that time alone. and i wake up just as early on weekends asi do weekdays, so i wake up at 5am thinking...oh my god..here we go again.

i too am glad/hopeful that i have found this forum. sharing my story, i'm 48, divorced since january...and feel very lonely most of my days...somewhere along the way, i feel like i lost the ability to make friends. i've thought about this a lot over the years. i've always been a very close...