Recent content by Vallis

She feels very secure with me, she's told me many, many times. She says she needs to feel secure. 1) She says its because we may have a baby soon. and her mom might come over sometimes. I think we should worry about space for the baby later (and hence get a smaller, more affordable place...

Pretty much, I feel. She wasn't this way before. She was very compromising, until she saw what I made and our expenses and I told her we couldn't afford the 2 bedroom

Today was a horrible day. I didn't contact her and she didn't contact me either. I felt very bad. I didn't eat for the whole day. I miss her severely, but I'm also upset how she can treat me so poorly. I'm not saying we're holding off anything for long either. 1) I just think we should...

I'm sorry, I think there was some misunderstanding, she didn't mean I can't afford the actual wedding, but the entire responsibilities of getting married (apartment, children, etc) She's not unreasonable. She has repeatedly told me she doesn't want an elaborate wedding ceremony, nor a big...

Last night my gf and I were talking about moving into a place of our own (she currently lives at her home and me at mine). She saw a 2 bedroom. We can't afford a 2 bedroom. I worked out our finances and we can only afford a 1 bedroom. I showed her some quick numbers and she was surprised...

This is what's distressing me the most: - Numbers that don't work (apparently it's been cancelled) - Phones that cut out. - Emails with no regularity (sometimes she does it daily... sometimes, not once in 3 days). It's weird, isn't it? I mean, you'd think she tell me if the number has been...

I may not be able to last until then. There's still 2 more weeks until she gets back. She emailed me yesterday so I know shes ok. But having a number I can't dial doesn't sit well with me. The problem is I have an exam for school next week. And if I'm worried/ distracted by this, I most...

She sent me an email earlier today. But when I tried calling her phone, it tells me "the number is no longer in service" ... whcih I find weird ... I mean if she changed numbers, she would have told me. And her cell was working just on Wednesday. I don't know what to do anymore :(

I just called twice (no one there) and sent her an email. I suppose that's all I could do at this point. So calling every other day is too much?? I don't really handle stressful situations well... it usually ends up with me drunk. Thanks for your input.

It’s 5am and I’m up writing this. I got a problem that’s been stressing me for the past two days, and I desparately need help. My girlfriend of 21/2 years left for Germany a week ago. She goes back every summer to visit her mum for a month. We’ve had problems about this before. Last year...

It appears my manager never opened the report. Why, I don't know. But I'd rather not ask. The whole week, she's been saying she'll review it with me. But she never talked to me about it (maybe she did read it herself). I guess it wasn't that important, cuz if it was, she would have talked...

I felt happy reading this thread today, and that's a rare thing for me :) :) Thank you all for your support and encouraging words!

Today my manager was too busy to open the report (still). Initally i thought it best I not talk to her about it. All the better if she forgets and doesn't bring it up. But towards the end of the day she talks to me and tells me she will review the report on Wednesday with me. Seeing how I...

Thank you. I spent last nite drinking again as I didn't know what else I could do. Since this worry happened, I can't seem to function normally anymore. I can't do house chores. I want to go outside to buy some stuff but I can't. I don't feel like leaving my house for a walk. I'm not...

Oh yeah I'm not going to surf while online with a client anymore. If my manager does talk to me about it, I'm making a very sincere promise that I'll stop the habit. I think my problem is waiting to see exactly what happens in about 24 hours. I wish time would fly by faster, as all this...