Recent content by xrchz

By the way, freenode offers a web client for connecting to IRC: http://webchat.freenode.net. It's really easy to use.

And tell me the result! :)

I would really love to chat on IRC - I will be there if anyone else joins, say hi :) (I can't run xat because I don't have flash, etc.)

You're not alone in feeling that way. I recognise what you're saying like it came out of my head. Two thoughts came to me. The first: to make a change to your routine, especially cleaning up a desk/putting stuff away, one way I know is to just do one thing and stop. For example, just put one...

I like people who can take care of themselves, and who are independently useful. The best is when they invite me to teach them something, or be involved in one of their plans, or make them part of one of mine: it's a sign of trust and appreciation. I think there are two kinds of "depending on"...

Hear, hear!

That sounds right to me, ladyforsaken. (I'm a man.) I want to spend time in someone's company if they make me feel good somehow, and this could be because of familiarity/shared experiences, or shared interests, or mutual attraction, or similar ambitions and problems that we can work through...

If it's not Cambridge or London (my preferences) then it doesn't matter much to me where :) Leamington Spa is just 3 hours on the train.

Is this still happening? I would be interested too.

Hi! I'm looking for people in Cambridge (UK) who are interested in developing some new friendships that might turn into relationships. I am a man and tend to be attracted to women. I suppose I'm also interested in talking to anyone from anywhere who might want to talk through (or otherwise...

lying in bed tired not sleeping. unsettled.

How do you show interest? I think it might be just as difficult for a girl who's not sure to do something too clear, because it would feel presumptuous. That's why I often have to remind myself to actually do something clear myself, anything that will at least force some kind of answer...

Why, do you know some specific actions that would accomplish that task (which would be difficult for a timid person)?

TheSolitaryMan, you said your older friends seemed to have more potential for real conversations. I think you could be right about the maturity. I just realized I wrote a post on almost the same question (http://www.alonelylife.com/thread-when-do-people-start-wanting-real-relationships). I...

send some PMs, e.g. to me :)