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No there really isn't anyone I feel comfortable talking to about this. It grows tiresome having to pretend I like being single when people notice I'm always single. I can't tell anyone the real reason.

Yes I definitely expect a failed date and I totally believe if I had more options lined up I wouldn't stress so much over a single date and it would go a little more smoothly. I just can't man up enough to even get a date no matter how much I want to. The one relationship I had 9 years ago I...

I'm also 30 and in a very similar situation. I've dated one girl in my life at 21 and it only lasted 3 months. I haven't had a single date since then and I've struggled with finding anyone to show any interest in me. I'm also a very quiet person. I don't initiate even a hello much and I...

That was right at the heart! My life story!

Thank you! I'm really upset about this and it's making me cry. I just think everything of her and if I'm not anything to her then why do I bother? :(

I turned 30 today and I didn't eve get a happy birthday from who I call my best friend. I know I'm not at that point with her, but it just ruined my day because I think the world of her. I was even talking to her last week about it. I did nothing today. My life sucks. It just kills me...

I really do care if someone doesn't like me. I get kind of upset when I feel like people who don't know me don't even show they like me at all at work, which I probably show the same to them too. I almost feel like if they really knew me they would, until I started flooding them with my issues...

I don't even know if this is the right forum but I'm lost right now. I feel I have so many problems but maybe people know of these problems. Sorry for the extremely long post I'm drinking and having a very rough time. I've had a friend now for about 5 months. I actually wanted to date her...

Thank you.

No way I'd never hurt her. I'd do absolutely everything in this entire world for her and I love her exactly how she is. She is absolutely beautiful in my eyes. Just because I have no other options right now doesn't mean I don't truly mean everything from the bottom of my heart. :(

I believe you are 100% correct in saying she probably wouldn't be that special if I had more options. Now I give her personality a 10/10, but in the looks department she isn't even above average, but that attraction just kinda grew on me the deeper the connection grew with her. I have no other...

This exactly.

Thank you. I didn't sleep a wink last night it was horrible. The guy she's seeing now is actually her ex. It's why she hasn't been interested in anything with anyone. Oh well.

I couldn't bear it anymore and talked to her about this exactly. I was shaking the entire time not wanting to do it at all! She understood and says she'll be here when I'm ready. I was afraid it might push her away for good but thankfully if I can get my feelings it check we can pick up where...

Hi, I'm new here but I'm in dire need of help. I made a new friend(my only real life friend) in September and made it clear right away I wanted to date her. She said she only wants to be friends and isn't looking for anything more as she is going through stuff in her life. Well it hurt but...

I applaud you for trying to do everything you can to find someone. I certainly wish I had it in me to get out and search like you. I don't even know where to go to begin meeting new people to try and date. I haven't been on a date in 8 years!

My emotions are all over the place. I am the happiest person on the planet around someone, but I'm stuck as "just friends". She's my only real life friend at the moment. I deeply want to be more than friends and I can't give up the friendship because I really want her as a friend.

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I'm not 30, but I will be in a few months. My one and only relationship lasted 3 months. From October 2006 to January 2007. Those were the best 3 months of my life. I have no idea what's so bad about me that I can't get a relationship.