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This dark place where you're isolated and hating everybody and life is honeysuckle can be forever, but it can be temporary too, like a bad too-long dream, and yeah, cheesy or not, that's up to you.  People reminding you that you are responsible to other people whether you like it or not, isn't them...

 I'm sorry you are feeling badly, but I don't read his reaction as anything you should feel bad about at all.  It's good to ask for help when you need it, and it sounds like he really wanted to help you the best he could.  What's the difference between sleeping on his couch/ bed and letting him...

Congrats! What a gift, and thank you for sharing with us! Please come back with updates and sending you all the best!

I like it here.  i keep it kind of anonymous but it's fun to share experiences and feel like a positive friend.   I've been in a similar industry with extremely long hours, and in my older age I'm getting kind of burnt out on the similarity of personalities in all of us.  It's like we're all...

Hey.  This is just my eleven cents after reading your post, I know you didn't really ask for any advice, so  I suppose I'm probably talking to myself, so forgive the pep talk please.  I have had some pretty major failures and traumas that now just feel like experiences, the successes do too...

you're probably right that i'm extending some benefit of the doubt because of her gender, but I'm a big believer in giving anyone the benefit of the doubt until you're sure the person is downright dangerous narcissist or worse.   but also because the poster didn't say 'help get me out of here"...

Good to hear you're still kicking. Still rooting for you

Back to your original question- aside from the obvious, accurate but a bit too easy advice to "leave" (as if you haven't considered that already and decided not to for whatever reason), have you sat her down and told her something along the lines of "this is not a behavior I will ever tolerate...

I don't know, wallflower I've read quite a few of your posts on here and I've always thought you sound like you would make great friend, and I'm not saying that to be nice, it's just when I see your name in a response thread I always click on it because I appreciate your perspective and think...

Holy honeysuckle I feel for you. A child rapist does not get rights. Go to the papers! Call the ACLU! You sound like the only decent human in your daughter's life. Please don't do anything to take you away from her.

Nicolt, how are you doing??? Sending love and hope you're still rallied around and able to find some comfort.  With everyone, sorry for your loss.

I honestly was just thinking about how I can practice not being so candid about myself, bc as I get older I see no one is really that interested in the personal reflections of a stranger, unless they say they're interested, and half the time they're just pretending to be interested to get...

Hi Richard, I've read and smiled at quite a few of your posts on here since I've been back recently but this is the first time I've seen your full story.  Thank you for sharing it, and wow you must be all over the place right now.   I can sense you want your daughter to have a fair chance to...

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Happy Birthday!  Hope you're eating your favorite foods and celebrating yourself! If I know anything about Leos you've got the power to impress and delight and gain the adoration you crave with a little bit of that confidence.  You sound like a great guy and good luck on the date!! HBD

I don't know if I can help, but after reading your post I just wanted to try to say something, anything, to let you know you were heard.   Please don't feel I am trying to minimize your experience, because I am not, it is quite a lot for you to have to heal from, even without the sudden death...

I get that, I'm not a big initiator either, I guess I thought you were saying you didn't want to have sex with him whatsoever, if you enjoy it while you're doing it I don't think there's much of a problem.  Most women kind of need to be seduced a little, I feel like it's a rare one who is alway...

I was going majorly coo-coo last year, sometimes for 10 days of PMS (what is probably PMDD) but then I was just all around nuts and out of control emotionally, lost ability to cope, embarrassed myself in front of my loved ones with unreasonable outbursts and emotions.  Turns out I have something...

Why cook a meal if you're not hungry? Because maybe someone you love is. It doesn't mean you have to cook every meal, but there are two people in your relationship, and one is unfulfilled by your lack of interest in sharing with him something he needs. No, this is not your fault if you aren't...

Trouble79- what's the scoop?  Any progress?  It's been a few months, just wanted to check in and see if you're feeling any better?