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  1. BlueArtist

    Back after almost 2 years of absence

    Well, hello everybody. Wow! it has been a very long while since I've been on the forums. And I think it is time I give an update of how things have gone in the last 2 years. I've gone from one relationship to another in the past and everything went wrong for me for years. But finally, just...
  2. BlueArtist

    Feel as if something is wrong with me

    Thank you Eve, 2012 was a horrible year for me, I almost wished that the crazy end of the world predictions would come true just to end all the misery. So here I sit, spending my entire December holiday by myself, and a month long holiday can become excruciating when you do it alone, and it...
  3. BlueArtist

    Going to events solo

    I used to go to places like a coffee shop alone, but after a while it just made me depressed when I see the one after the other happy couple walking in and sitting together, laughing, talking and staring into one anothers eyes. So lately I will only go out to visit friends once in a while, but...
  4. BlueArtist

    Feel as if something is wrong with me

    Well so earlier in the year my girlfriend dumped me for various reasons. 1. I didn't earn more than she did, I'm an artist, she a chemical engineer...and she felt that a relationship like that will never work. I never asked her for money, as a matter of a fact I contributed as much as I...
  5. BlueArtist

    Your Feelings After a Breakup?

    Jip, confusion, sadness, anger, basicaly all the possible human emotions all at once. Me and my girlfriend broke up a week ago, we tried to salvage it but there were small things that just couldn't be resolved on both sides. Hope time will heal this wounds and I can lift my head again and get...
  6. BlueArtist

    Questions for the Women

    I have a question for the ladies, been thinking about it for a while now. I've been with my girlfriend for over 3 months now and I've noticed scars below each of her breasts from the first time we were together. A comment that her brother inlaw made about her and her sister also made me realise...
  7. BlueArtist

    Dating

    I never said I want somebody perfect, never. I admited to her I have stuff that I need to work on myself. A relationship is communication and finding the middle ground. I never wanted someone to be A, b, c or d she did. I accepted her for who she is and the fact that she has a child and I...
  8. BlueArtist

    Dating

    Well it seems like I'm getting to the bottom of this problem. I talked to friends of both of us and they apparently told her strait she needs to really think about how she acted. That she have unrealistic ideas about men, and that she will never have a happy relationship in her life if she is...
  9. BlueArtist

    Dating

    I should have known things were to good to be true, as of this morning 2:25am my girlfriend of 2 months dumped me and on the day of my 37th B-day party. Because she felt that: a) I should have introduce her to my parents sooner than today. I only met her folks in the last 3 weeks. b) I forgot...
  10. BlueArtist

    Conforming to Dating/Relationship "Rules"

    BD, I know how you feel; I have gone on numerous Blind dates, girls that I've asked out etc. I was always scared that I'm going to do the wrong thing at the wrong time, so I've never being in a relationship for my entire adult life. A month ago I started seeing someone that I've known for...
  11. BlueArtist

    My new friend

    Still doesn't beat the real thing as I've come to realise over the last 5 weeks. Warm bodies cuddeling under a blanket in winter is the best.
  12. BlueArtist

    What are you thinking right now?

    Can't I tell my boss I need to hibernate for the next three months until it is sunny and warm again?
  13. BlueArtist

    What are you eating/drinking right now?

    Hot cup of coffee in the hope that it will help against the cold. BRRRRRRR!
  14. BlueArtist

    A generalization about a certain kind of men

    I work at a university and I see it amongst 90% of all the academics on campus. The treat others that didn’t study further past a normal degree as inferior, they are usually arrogant and full of themselves. They are so uptight about their titles as Professors and Doctors that they feel offended...
  15. BlueArtist

    Dating

    Had a bit of a difficult moment last night. My inabillity to communicate properly with women almost led to a huge misunderstanding between us. Due to the fact that I do not always know what I'm doing or how to act when around women that I like made her percieve that I'm sending mixed signals...
  16. BlueArtist

    My doodles

    Well I started drawing again last week, mostly rough sketches to get my thoughts organised on paper again. I've drawn the faint outlines onto the A2 size paper. This will be my largest pencil sketch ever. Think I will give a progress report as often as possible by posting the visual progress.
  17. BlueArtist

    Dating

    Congrats on the date, but dude come on man. Women like sex too. I wil not go there...yet, she already have a child with a guy that didn't stick around for their marriage when she got pregnant and I know she still has some trust issues there. So I will give it a little bit more time.
  18. BlueArtist

    Dating

    Second date went also amazingly well, we went to the party she invited me to and met her friends. Afterwards she invited me to her place for coffee and we sat and talked untill the early hours of the morning. I have no idea why I was always so nervous about dating, seems like if you find the...
  19. BlueArtist

    Dating

    Had an awesome evening last night and even got a second date!!! :)
  20. BlueArtist

    Dating

    Thanks for everybody's input, well tonight is the night. I'm slightly nervous, first "date" in years. Saw her at friends last night and she also mentioned that maybe we should go dance sometime soon. I made a joke saying that my danceparteners never come back for a second dance since they...
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