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I want to leave because of one particular house member. However, money remains a huge constraint and lack of money gives me no power to move house, no power to be myself, no respect in the house. I am so angry right now. So manipulative, condescending, egotistical, arrogant, spiteful...

You made clear and concise thoughts and I actually agree with you. It is always hard to find the right balance, between strength and subtlety, in regards to expressing emotions, thoughts and personality. Particularly if those feelings are overpowering. Often times, the person who I love might...

Thank you for the advice but I think I did leave it too late. Two of them have moved city for various reasons and one is 'not looking for a relationship' at the moment. I think she is being honest about it though. I think Nicolelt is right in that my natural simulator in my mind was in a slight...

Recently I have had a sudden influx of female irl friends. It has been a bit surreal to be honest. It has done wonders to my depression which is all but gone now. Trouble is, after my last experience with having a girl-friend, I am a bit anxious. I am desperate about finding a...

I think I am better alone for most of the time, however, I like to think I will find someone I can be alone with together. I achieved this in the past but after that ended, I had no choice but to learn to be alone, so very alone (relationship wise). I still am alone after many years. Yet now I...

I had a little read of some posts on this thread, and I seem to agree with most people. It depends on the girl; despite one's best efforts and sharpest tongue. It's dependent on how receptive the girl is to you. For example, once I was in a pub and a girl walked past and asked me '~ do you know...

I understand that I'm fairly young, but I don't feel young inside. Nobody ever does when they're depressed. It's never a factor. I just think how fast time will fly and I will be the same lonely self just older each year and each year less likely to succeed. Confidence always seems fake to me...

Not getting a message, is also a message. Especially if it's a recurring thing.

I've spent months trying to sort my life out. I've spent my life trying to sort my life out, but I think I'm making progress. Just as I make progress in life (I have a job, keeping up with hobbies etc), I meet a girl. I like a girl, I get strong feelings. Then they move on before I get the...

I recently finished my course at University and I just feel so worthless because I don't have a job and I haven't ever had a long standing job. Nobody seems to respect me and I am always comparing myself to others and knowing I am just so insignificant in comparison. Even younger siblings are...

It sounds tough, and I am not the best at empathy though I do try; do you think maybe the thing you feel you're hiding from others is ultimately the 100% real you? The 'you' that is present when no one else is around? These multiple personalities appear to be overbearing and controlling the...

I can relate to the op with an experience I had with someone that not long ago I was very close to. Without revealing names, she has BPD too and was very energetic and talked a lot. Like a lot. People didn't realise that maybe it was to avoid potential negativity directed to her. If one is...

They seem so ignorant to how the world is. They live in the past and compare how their life is to how your life is like they are superior and know what it's like. Even though they are all comfortable with their job and other half. They might know you in the sense of how they raised you but...

(OP) I will firstly state that I admire this method of self definition. If everyone were write out what they see in themselves like you have , they would learn a LOT about themselves. That being said, you seem comfortable enough and maybe even confident enough to understand yourself (which is...

The way I see it, if they are showing signs of disrespect this early on, they don't sound worth your time. The way my old friends interact with me is a result of years of stagnation. The trouble is though we have to weigh up whether you can cope without bad friends or no friends at all.

Because they will still talk to me and invite me out and come to my house after so many years. They still do all the things you expect in a friend but they are ignorant from time to time. They told me to meet them at their house this week and then told me not to because they are working a lot...

I have decided to lay low now to see if they do indeed initiate communication and treat me more like a friend. I feel like life at this point is just people taking what they need from others, be it physically or mentally and nothing else. It took me this long to realise my friendships...

Every time I try to arrange a meet up with them, it's always in their favour. If they can't be bothered with me they just don't reply at all or return a call 95% of the time. I feel like a robot they text commands at like "we're out tonight meet us at 'x' place) then I'm supposed to come running...

I know this is not the kind of question you expect here, but would any women here allow me to PM them my question for further anonymity?

So as cliche as it might seem. Valentine's day brings out the forever alone in me. I should remember no one wants me every other day of the year but around this time with adverts everywhere, friend's lovey dovey Valentine's plans and the years that go by with each Valentine's, I have become...