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Oh boo hoo cry sob... oh grow up, honestly, I got this for years, and every single woman gets this in the neck for years from family and from smug friends. It's none of their **** business. I got married just before 30 and until then I even got accused very nastily of being a lesbian due to not...

THIS is the BEST reply! Wish I'd had this attitude at 19. Always so admired my friends who never gave a rat's ass for what people thought of them. It's totally the way to live. This guy is right that allowing others' opinion to get to you is allowing them to control you, and personally it's THAT...

I tried reading a few postings in this section, but it was too horrible. So much bitterness, neediness, and even hatred for the opposite sex. Why? Is it any wonder that you can't find a partner, or lose them, or they're bad to you or dump you? Some of the postings were from very scary disturbed...

1. You're not the only person with a big brain that can do stuff; but what a waste it is not to use it properly. 2. Stop obsessing about things you can't change - accept you can't change those things and move on. 3. Having a total focus on others and the world is your mind's defence mechanism...

Do you not fit in? If so then why? Or is it that you don't like people; why? Is there some other reason? I'm interested to know. Personally I've never fitted in. For some reason I was born misfit. When I was a small child I had a highly developed mind that was much more like the way an adult...

First of all; be glad you have your mother. When I only had my mother left I didn't think much of it either, but now she's also gone and I have no-one at all, believe me it's VERY different to having just her. So please make the most of it and appreciate her - she only has YOU also. 'Online...

My situation is the state of being ALONE rather than simply being LONELY. I've read some of the postings and the members all seem to have connections; some are married, others have parents, or other family, or friends - so they don't know what it's like to actually be ALONE although their sense...

Good luck!

I'm not sure about 'embracing' it, but I seem to have 'accepted' it, which in one way is good, because it doesn't fill my mind so much anymore, but in another way it's bad, because I've lost the desire to try and 'get out there' to meet people, to make friends, to find a man, to be in another...

When I was very young I tried several times to kill myself; obviously without success! Then I thought I'd give my life a chance until I was 40 to see if it would be great or fulfilling; but it hasn't been. So I decided five years ago I'd see my plan thru to kill myself after I've got all my...