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  1. FillyTheBish

    Anyone for a London Meetup?

    Was working this weekend so didn't do anything unfortunately. This sounds great, I didn't even know about meetup.com, thanks for posting this. I've joined your group :cool:
  2. FillyTheBish

    Anyone for a London Meetup?

    I'm probably going to go this weekend if I get the time hopefully, go bar hopping and probably go to a club, doesn't look like many people would be interested though. If I manage to go and anyone is still interested I'll update this thread on Saturday or something saying where I'm gonna go and...
  3. FillyTheBish

    Anyone for a London Meetup?

    I'm 28 and lonely as hell. I sometimes go clubbing on my own to London, I don't mind being "that guy on his own" in the club :P Any guys or girls here interested in a meet up in London where some of us can get together as fellow loners and maybe go out to a bar or even a club together to shake...
  4. FillyTheBish

    Would like to arrange a meet up point somewhere in london this weekend

    I sometimes go clubbing in London on my own. If anyone wants to go clubbing together then they can PM me or put something in here. I'm a pretty shy guy really, so I'm not likely to walk off in the club on my own, we'd chill together and just have a good time.
  5. FillyTheBish

    Feeling much better (prostitution really helps)

    Because a countries laws, enforcement and procedures don't work well does not prove that the idea of legalised prostitution is a bad idea. Your logic is severely flawed. A lof of Priests abused children when there were few checks made on the welfare of those children. Would it be a good idea...
  6. FillyTheBish

    Feeling much better (prostitution really helps)

    Actually, if prostitution was made legal and regulated and the women were given powers offered to any other legal business, then the pimping would stop. The people trafficking however will simply be aimed at other things, such as illegal employment. If a shop owner gets beaten up they tell the...
  7. FillyTheBish

    Feeling much better (prostitution really helps)

    OP and anyone interested in anything to do with prostitution should go to Punternet.com and read the forums; here you will see prostitutes talking about their profession and see their point of view. I used to think the sex trade was dirty and sleazy until I tried it after breaking up from my...
  8. FillyTheBish

    Clubbing on your own?

    Lol, yes it can get you like that if you go there purely for looking for a hookup. Personally I go for the music and to chat to people who I will likely not meet again. I find it liberating; gets me out of these 4 walls. I actually met my ex-fiance while out clubbing alone, she was with...
  9. FillyTheBish

    Clubbing on your own?

    Being a loner (obviously), I sometimes go clubbing on by myself. I get a few funny looks if someone thinks it's obvious that I'm alone, like the odd sniggering couple of girls, but more often I get guys and girls talk to me and sometimes dance a bit. Anyone here ever go clubbing on your own or...
  10. FillyTheBish

    what did you do today?

    Today I had a day off from training, just did some uni work, took dog for a walk, washed dog, browsed net. Now I'm drinking some wine, eating cake, browsing forums and watching Youtube.
  11. FillyTheBish

    Online Dating Sites

    Wow the people on these dating sites are so shallow! I've been browsing the Plenty of Fish forum and there is a section for profile reviews; so many people are asking what they should change in their profile to attract more people and the advice they get is to practically re-write their entire...
  12. FillyTheBish

    Unhelpful phrases said by people to try and make us feel better.

    I never pay attention to other peoples advice when it is in the form of a simple and vague saying. Most people who say these things don't really think about what it means, it just comes out. But I do value proper, articulated advice that is aimed at my unique problem. But not many people can...
  13. FillyTheBish

    Who here goes / has been to a prostitute/escort?

    I have, it was a great experience :D I kind of like the idea of paying for it, I find it quite arousing, but that's just me ;)
  14. FillyTheBish

    Maybe I should hire a prostitute and be done with it.

    Sounds like you had a great time :D I can agree with the confidence boost, I felt that after my first escort, it was akin to when I first had sex with my girlfriend, the nerves and exhiliration were all there too. Apparently, so I see in most research (theres been a lot here in UK lately as...
  15. FillyTheBish

    Im 20 and never had a girlfriend in my life. Is this bad?

    Sorry? I'm not sure what you mean there. I'm not making stuff up, your body does age and a mans peak is in his teens and early twenties, after that your body stops creating as much testosterone and what not. Testosterone = virility...
  16. FillyTheBish

    Im 20 and never had a girlfriend in my life. Is this bad?

    I lost my virginity at 19, I don't want to upset anyone, but I find that now at age 27, sex is not as good as it was back then. I think, as you get older, especially later 20's, you lose some verility and performance. The best sex I ever had was in my early 20's and 19. I'm not saying you...
  17. FillyTheBish

    Seeking a relationship without friends?

    I sort of have the same issue. I have lots of acquintances, but none that I would consider social friends. My ex partner of 4 years found it a bit annoying that I didn't have friends, she would often push me to try and get some, but it never worked out for me. I feel a lot of women would be...
  18. FillyTheBish

    United Kingdom?

    Hey guys, I just found this thread. I'm in UK too. I live in a small village called Chipping Campden in the Cotswolds, Gloucestershire. I go to Uni in Northampton.
  19. FillyTheBish

    Maybe I should hire a prostitute and be done with it.

    I'm out of a 4 year relationship and since the break I have paid for sex. I'm 27. I went to an escort, not a woman off the street. It was comfortable, unrushed, safe and quite enjoyable. I plan to do it again :D the proper escorts can be stunning. For me now, sex is nothing special, I used...
  20. FillyTheBish

    My life feels like an endless greyhound bus trip

    Hi and welcome. You need to get out and do something that interests you and makes you feel more proud of yourself. Think of things you admire or sports you think are cool. Then go out and try and find a club to join, there are many lonely people who join clubs just to get some social...
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