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I come to this forum to read stuff every now and then, sometimes make posts when I want input on some issue or to try to hear some advice that will help me grow or open my mind to new perspectives. Sometimes it can seem comforting to hear that there are many other people with similar problems...

I don't have any abnormal passions or anything, I just know that I'm not that desirable of a person, I don't really know why exactly, I just know it is so because what I've experienced, or could say lack of experienced.  The thing is with free dating sites, because women get so many messages...

Haha, maybe most people will assume they mean looks when it comes to saying "average/best", but I didn't quite mean just that. Like I feel that I am average not because of looks, (my looks are not really THAT bad, and I'm in alright shape), but I feel that I'm not a good catch because of else...

I used to have a problem with blushing late in high school. It would even come on for stupid reasons. I could not beat it, no matter how hard I tried to not blush. Only until I gave up trying and just accepted that it will happen it and let it be, is when the problem went away. Like for example...

Another topic on dating sites, yeah I know that most people don't have good experiences with them. It is nothing new to me to hear countless times about guys that go on those sites and can't get any replies. I've experienced it too, can send numerous messages and get nothing except maybe a...

Looking over this thread briefly. It sort of interests me, apparently enough so to make a post. I actually know a few "childfree" people as you call them. My sister for one. She has no children, does not ever want them, and I know will never have them. For me, I have not decided either way...

I very much relate to the original poster. And I am even older than him. But, there is one thing I strongly disagree on. I don't think he or anyone else similar is a "loser", just because they have trouble talking, have not had a partner or sex in many years. This kind of thinking is messed up...

It seems sometimes that there is so much negativity out there... People who constantly criticize, place expectations on you, make subtle insulting side comments, etc. Why can't some people just accept others for the way they are, and not shoot them down, make gossip? Why can't people recognize...

Good topic. For me it is hard to explain, but I'd say it is the realization that I am likely always going to be alone. I've been alone for a long time. And the older I get, the deeper I get and the worse my chances are. And also the realization that the women that I like, just do not really...

Might and Magic X Legacy.

I very much relate to this as well. I have found job searching to be extremely depressing. I went to university and have 2 degrees. But I don't drive and don't have any experience. I'm not very good at presenting myself and making good first impressions. Never have been. I've always been...

Just came across this now. Nice work. Nice to see a contribution to black metal. Don't have time right now to listen to all of it, as I got to head out soon. But I'd like to later on. From what I've heard just now, I'd say it sounds like death metal as well.

I could be alone in my thinking here, but I think that if people really do care, they won't feel "obligated" to care when you talk about your problems. They will want to listen and help you. But the problem is, do such people really exist? People that will listen to your problems and it not be a...

I think it is ironic and there is definitely some truth to how one can feel so alone when yet living with this age of technology where there are all these forms of communication. I think there are actually a lot of people that feel alone in todays day, to various degrees, despite this. I think...

I feel like I will never be able to meet someone special because I am too shy, I don't seem to connect to or relate to anyone around where I live, and I am not able to open myself up. Are males always the ones that are expected to initiate something? What if you are just not that type of...

This was a great post LongWolfFang. I really liked reading it. It was positive way of looking at and accepting something that many of us feel, but so many people view it as such a negative thing. I wish there were more people that thought like this... I didn't really care to read much of the...

I'm not going to bother listing any specific instance in detail but I feel like I've had tons of missed opportunities, to varying degrees. I can't help but take things very slow with people at first, then by the time I start to develop strong feelings for a person and want to do something about...

I used to drink a lot more when I was younger. But I've made myself sick far enough times; I think I had alcohol poisoning on a few occasions. Now when I drink, all it really does is make me feel like crap for the most part. Have trouble sleeping as well. Alcohol brings all kinds of...

I watched the video. The way I saw things, and the message I get from the video, is basically that it is all the woman who makes this even possible... This guy, without her, would be nothing, he would to continue to feel like crap, and he would never even come to think these things that the...

If they take a few days to respond, but then they eventually DO, wouldn't that show that they ARE interested? I don't see why it should be a big deal to respond / not respond within a certain time. Not too early, but not too late. Because then it really becomes like you are just following the...