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    What are you feeling, hoping, thinking, or remembering right now?

    It was a softball league. My job is pretty honeysuckle and doesn't belong in the recipe lol. From what I can gather, the important thing is to be around as many people as you can as much as you can. If you can meet the same people on a frequent basis, even better. Most humans want the same thing so...
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    Comfort blanket

    You know... this place is like a comfort blanket and I don't like that idea at all. Not for myself. I have seriously thought about leaving the forums but have always put it off. I think I need to go ahead and follow through.
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    What are you thinking right now?

    Just thinking back on past mistakes and wondering how I could be so blinded..... Love is kinda terrible. But it's all good.
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    What are you thinking right now?

    Kinda confused. And kinda angry with myself.
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    What are you thinking right now?

    It is funny how things change so suddenly. Now I feel like I dodged a bullet lol Also means that I can't trust myself when it comes to love but I'd rather that.
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    What are you feeling, hoping, thinking, or remembering right now?

    I was in a really bad place from a breakup so I kinda asked for help. I had been kinda friendly with a guy from work but we never really did anything outside of work. When I was in the bad place, I mentioned how the breakup kinda blindsided me and how I didn't want to be alone on Sundays, which...
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    What are you feeling, hoping, thinking, or remembering right now?

    I felt much the same way. I had been pretty much an outcast all of my life. I thought I would be alone until I die. I was trying to learn to be okay with that because I was sure that would be my life. All that changed literally just 5 months ago. I am 30 years old. I am total honeysuckle at social...
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    What are you feeling, hoping, thinking, or remembering right now?

    Thanks. I am stubborn and don't usually do what is in my best interests so I will likely take the difficult route. My heart will take a battering but it will survive. Probably. *shrug*
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    What are you feeling, hoping, thinking, or remembering right now?

    I don't feel like I will ever find anyone I love as much as her. Unfortunate that she doesn't feel the same. I give up on even thinking about trying to be with her again. Now I have to decide whether or not I am going to take the foolish, difficult route of being friends with her or try to...
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    What are you thinking right now?

    This helped me with my overthinking: http://www.lionsroar.com/six-kinds-of-loneliness/ While it isn't specifically about thinking too much, there is a part in there about what to do with those unwanted thoughts. Hope you find that place you want to be. I feel like I set up a trap for myself...
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    Whos Your A.L.L Crush? Dont be shy! But Just For Fun Too!

    Alana & Choxie. I miss Beckett.
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    Online dating

    Now that I know the area you live in, I can understand. Unfortunately, I don't have any other suggestions. I think that if you succeed on your relocation, you will be in a much better situation. I wish you best of luck.
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    Not enough time/energy to online date?

    Yea, I can imagine WV and the surrounding areas being a very different(i.e. difficult) dating experience. I live in Chicago so I have a large group of people to select from. You never know, though. You may be able to find someone who is willing to try a long distance relationship, if that is...
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    What are you thinking right now?

    Understood. Just hope it's not hurting yourself in the process. I wish you all the best. I hope the loneliness you have been feeling lately passes.
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    Not enough time/energy to online date?

    hahahaha I wish! I am not an attractive guy. I am somewhere between Forrest Whitaker and Cedric the Entertainer on the attractiveness scale. I don't have a great education. I am not rich. I am about as average as they come. It probably helps a lot that I live in a very big city in the US. Also...
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    What are you thinking right now?

    After. As soon as I hear the 'ding' on my phone or see the notification light blinks, my hearts starts beating faster, blood pressure rises, nervousness takes over. I believe I know what it is from. I just don't understand why it is happening now. I need to overcome it. I can't allow it...
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    Not enough time/energy to online date?

    I have been doing the online dating thing for a while. I don't think it is nearly as bad as a lot of people say. I see quite a large percentage teachers on there too. I think they have the same problem as you, in regards to time constraints. I personally think that online dating would be a good...
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    What are you thinking right now?

    What is up with this super weird anxiety thing I have been having lately. I can't read a text message, get a facebook messenger notification, or even visit Facebook without some kind of weird anxious feeling.
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    Online dating

    Are there any social/singles sports leagues or meetup groups? I have met A LOT of single people after joining a social/singles sports league. There are usually parties of some sort every week where I could meet even more people. I do live in a big city, though. Not sure if that is something that...
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    Online dating

    I have had pretty good success with it. I met one person that I thought would be my lifetime partner. It didn't work out but I still think the relationship has been beneficial to my life. I have been on plenty of dates using it and am currently kinda seeing someone from it.
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