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No kidding? That's crazy...termites lol. Well I just meant that I think it's true that it's in our nature to want other things, other people, for feelings to change. Don't get me wrong, I'm sure there are some termites and swans in the world that Do want one person their whole lives. It just...

Also, I just remembered a conversation I had with someone not too long ago and my friend told me this. I don't think we are meant to be with just one person for our whole lives. We're alot like animals. Animals go around screwing whoever they want. It's in our nature to want other people...

It's funny how much I can relate to this. I couldn't quite make out what exactly went wrong, but I just got out of a similar situation. It wasn't for 10 years, but 6. And although the relationship wasn't physical, as we live on opposite sides of the country and other circumstances, it was...

Okay, this is no joke. There is a real thing called Seasonal Affective Disorder. This is thought to come from lack of vitamin D. We get viatmin D from direct sunlight, so naturally in the fall and winter months we do not get enough. This can affect one's mood slightly or drastically. I just...

I don't know. I guess it is friendship since you care and talk sometimes. But it's like a catch 22 for me I guess. No, I don't wish him any physical harm, but it will kill me to see him happy since he doesn't deserve it. Then on the other side of that, I miss him alot...too much. Sooooo yea...

I get ya. Out of sight, out of mind...at least that's the idea. The whole "observing" thing was supposed to be funny. :)

Hole in my Soul - Aerosmith

So you all haven't talked since last year? That's just...weird. Seems like she's trying to spark something. Oh anf F.Y.I, I hate the whole social network sites even though I do have Facebook. But don't look at keeping up with someone as stalking, look at it as "observing". :P

Was this message like out of nowhere? I'm a little confused. If she sent that after things have been over for a while, then I'd say she wants you. There would be no other reason for her to just up and say that. But if she said it like right when you all broke up, then it just seems like the...

I think you are right. I would have to have zero feelings for him in order not to care what he does. It's just hard cause I miss him but I just can't have him in my life just as a friend. That is almost insulting after everything I went through for him. I hope I'm not some freak that never...

To remain friends after a very serious relationship...serious to the point of marriage and soulmate talk for 6 years? I suppose for the person who wanted it to be over it would be easier. But for the person that got left in the dust...can they really be just a friend, watching the other person...

So....this is a new thing for me. I'm not sure what to say since I am socially challenged other than I'm 34 and I live in (not really in but near(I don't feel that comfortable giving my exact location)) Chicago, Il.