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Ok I'll try this out too.. I am a single male, living in the biggest city in the United States, studying in university. I have always found myself to be unconventional personality wise and I think thats why its not always easy for me to really connect to people on a deep level. I guess you can...

That's a good point Mary Mary.. I think sometimes I'm too closed minded to different things even though I like to claim I'm open minded =/ Maybe I've been jumping to conclusions too quickly..

well.. ill be honest I'm always hesitant to go so far to just try social stuff cuz all my life I've failed socially.. never got alot of attention from people, never was able to maintain their attention. The other big issue i have is that even when i do i rarely am able to find people of my age...

Wow.. I really sympathize Luna.. I know very well how it all feels like, the way you described it. It sucks major.. I go thru the same things over and over and over again in my head and I get sick and tired of it too.. Unfortunately being in the same boat I don't know if I have any answers for...

Normal is what we think it is. I think sometimes we tend to over think about what "normal" is. I think its important to remember that no one is "truly" normal. Everyone is weird and strange in their own way =p

uuhhh idk.. i never really considered those places a good option.. cuz im a nerdish/geeky type =( those places just arent for me (though I know I should give it a try) I still doubt that these places are my cup of tea. Old enough to go to all of the above.. well close enough lol I'm interested...

Like many of you, I'm shy, introverted and not the most social person. I just wonder.. for people like us how can we meet others? I mean.. think about it.. many of us are probably lonely cuz we lack interaction with others and don't get enough exposure. There must be ways for people like us to...

Perhaps.. but we can always hope.. And yes you make a good point about finding our own happiness.. I guess sometimes its faulty logic to tie our happiness to whether we are with someone or not. Your right.. it is bad.. its just the experiences I've gone through in life that has made me this...

I feel ya man.. its a terrible feeling.. part frustration, part envy, part sadness.. and being a man it just hits u inside more.. it sucks hard. All we can do is try to combat it as much as we can with what we've got. Sometimes I try to remember what I do have.. because even though its not the...

Wait I'm sorry but whats a WASP? =/ See thats the thing, its like I have so many obstacles that my opportunities are next to nothing, ive gotten to a point where i dont even believe I can find my chances much less make them happen.. I have lost a lot of hope in ever even finding someone... I...

Wow you sound alot like me sunny.. so much so its scary. I do like 90% of the things you just described.. it does suck.. its like the boat sailed along time ago since im actually way past my first year AND that I actually transferred schools too. Sometimes it feels like if you don't "establish"...

@SocratesX I've always doubted the "benefits" of working out and exercise.. Idk, I don't see how that can "change my life" like some people suggest it can do. Sure it'll be beneficial but eh...

Well.. I'm no expert myself but I'll tell you what I know from my high school experiences. I know that the high school scene can be tough; sometimes you'll be rejected for dumb reasons. Don't let that get to you. Also when trying to talk to others try not to let your past emotions and stuff get...

True.. I have to try to keep that in mind.. being in a Commuter college sometimes sucks, it feels like your not moving ahead, living in a dorm and what not but yeah.. And LOL regarding the stereotype (won't say anymore since idk how strict the forum rules are here =p Hey atomlight, even...

Hi all, thanks for the replies... I know I'm being hard on my self but sometimes I like to think that I'm just practical about the situation, I'm not gonna sugar the fact that if things don't change I'm so ****ed in the long run, I'll never be able to make friends much less find dates... I find...

Heres why 1) I'm Asian (That in itself is a disadvantage, with all the stereotypes and what not 2) The stereotypes actually fit me.. All the BAD ones that is.. 3) Being short 4) Being skinny and slender 5) Being geeky and nerdy (I'll admit I am more on that side then anything) 6) Being quiet and...

In my mind I know I have to do that but for me it can be a bit difficult, I'll be honest, I was kinda raised spoiled(ish) but usually I dont clamor for everything, I was taken care of too much (for better or for worse) from my parents at a young age so theres this sense of dependency thats hard...

Yes.. I think your definitely not alone in this.. it sucks.. I know that not everyone would like to do this but I find that keeping yourself as busy as possible helps, even though Christmas is supposed to be a time to have a good time and relax, its hard to relax when your feeling this way..

Thanks for the reply guys, I really appreciate the any input you guys have.. About self-hatred, I've realized that yes, this is one of the worst things that an do to myself at this point.. but its hard, its like falling into a rabbit hole and then trying to climb out, when you have virtually...

Well where to begin.. I must say I feel very ashamed to have to post in a place like this (not trying to say anything bad here) ... I am a very lonely person.. I think all of my life I've seen people not take me seriously, I've had friends leave me one by one, slowly but surely, its like as time...