I have the same problem kind of. I want to get into things like urban exploration, hiking, meditating, gardening, running, mountain biking. I already do quite a bit of these activities on my own, but I cannot find others interested in the same activities. It is so easy to find people who want to do nothing but hang out and drink, do drugs but for everything else it is a wasteland. There are so many county parks near where I live, but most the time you go there and they are always quite empty. If people are there, it is usually because they want to walk their dog somewhere they can be rude and not pick up the dogshit.
Also I do not want to resonate with most of society, or let's say I cannot. I am a healthy vegan that avoids artificial sugars. overcooked foods and junk food. I am not all about making and spending money, infact I hate both equally and there is not people have to talk about nowadays besides economic activity in some way. I don't drink, do drugs, I even avoid over the counter medicines. I am not about getting identify from buying products, etc. So really I cannot mesh with others, and to a large extent I don't want to even though I know it is unhealthy to stay so isolated and in my head all the time.