Pheenix
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Title seems generic, but hear me out.
I have come very close to solving my social problem. Next step, in line with my revelation that it's all about a faulty self-perception, I am going to be outgoing even though it doesn't come to me naturally. In my perception I am not an outgoing guy, and therefore I don't become it.
But with that comes actively seeking out friends. But this doesn't come naturally to me at all. Because I actually don't want to.
Is this simply a sign that I haven't gotten used to it yet? Because it makes sense that perhaps the concept is so foreign to me that I have no emotional attachment to it.
The weird part is, I feel like I would totally want to make friends if I met more interesting people. Now, don't worry, I have beaten all possible arrogance and thoughts of superiority out of my head, but its interesting that this persists.
In short: I don't have any natural interest in making friends. Is this an issue of getting used to it?
I have come very close to solving my social problem. Next step, in line with my revelation that it's all about a faulty self-perception, I am going to be outgoing even though it doesn't come to me naturally. In my perception I am not an outgoing guy, and therefore I don't become it.
But with that comes actively seeking out friends. But this doesn't come naturally to me at all. Because I actually don't want to.
Is this simply a sign that I haven't gotten used to it yet? Because it makes sense that perhaps the concept is so foreign to me that I have no emotional attachment to it.
The weird part is, I feel like I would totally want to make friends if I met more interesting people. Now, don't worry, I have beaten all possible arrogance and thoughts of superiority out of my head, but its interesting that this persists.
In short: I don't have any natural interest in making friends. Is this an issue of getting used to it?