Why does getting into a relationship seem to happen automatically for some people?

[Pete528]

I just don't understand why some relationships seem to manifest on their own for some people? I used to believe it was something that happened on it's own eventually.

P.S.

By the way, I'm new here.

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[Sci-Fi]

Welcome to the forum

I guess those people just find each other and click, for some we have to work a little harder to find that person.

[lostatsea]

I had the same belief as you, but I think it comes directly with putting yourself out there. I never did much, and as a result it never really happened. Thinking back I have had a fair amount of chances to make things happen but I was always too scared, too awkward, or just not interested. The last several years I just stopped trying completely. I don't meet new people, mostly because I isolate myself and don't even try.

Living like that, how can I expect anything to happen. Most people live life, and give themself that chance and opportunity.

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[ForGrantedWife]

Honey sometimes it's not all it's cracked up to be. Nothing is perfect, if anyone says otherwise they are fibbing :-) Others are just better at hiding it.

[Peaches]

hello, welcome to the forum!

I know what you mean, this woman I know, is not yet separated from her husband and already she got the only decent available guy in our circle. I will never understand how some people are never without a partner, how it works, someone should explain that.

[Pete528]

I appreciate all these responses.

Thank you!

[Batman55]

hello, welcome to the forum!

I know what you mean, this woman I know, is not yet separated from her husband and already she got the only decent available guy in our circle. I will never understand how some people are never without a partner, how it works, someone should explain that.

Yes, I was glad to help her out, we clicked, and it is true that I was the only decent guy in the circle--the others were unavailable or too shy. I must admit, I'm very happy.

[ardour]

Those who are attractive and possess a certain level of charisma have fewer barriers to overcome.

[lostatsea]

Those who are attractive and possess a certain level of charisma have fewer barriers to overcome.

It's true... scientifically proven... being attractive alone is enough to give you a huge edge in life, you'll get better jobs, be paid more, people will be nicer to you...

add a decent personality and charisma and then life gets easy...

it's easy to see what's on the outside... hard to see what's on the inside.

[Peaches]

hello, welcome to the forum!

I know what you mean, this woman I know, is not yet separated from her husband and already she got the only decent available guy in our circle. I will never understand how some people are never without a partner, how it works, someone should explain that.

Yes, I was glad to help her out, we clicked, and it is true that I was the only decent guy in the circle--the others were unavailable or too shy. I must admit, I'm very happy.

LOL, never thought that was you Batman

By the way, this lady (sorry Batman) is not that attractive by current standards, a bit overweight, premature white hair, very plain clothes, it's all in the attitude