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Why does getting into a relationship seem to happen automatically for some people?
#1
I just don't understand why some relationships seem to manifest on their own for some people? I used to believe it was something that happened on it's own eventually.

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By the way, I'm new here.

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#2
Welcome to the forum

I guess those people just find each other and click, for some we have to work a little harder to find that person.
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#3
I had the same belief as you, but I think it comes directly with putting yourself out there. I never did much, and as a result it never really happened. Thinking back I have had a fair amount of chances to make things happen but I was always too scared, too awkward, or just not interested. The last several years I just stopped trying completely. I don't meet new people, mostly because I isolate myself and don't even try.

Living like that, how can I expect anything to happen. Most people live life, and give themself that chance and opportunity.

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#4
Honey sometimes it's not all it's cracked up to be. Nothing is perfect, if anyone says otherwise they are fibbing :-) Others are just better at hiding it.
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#5
hello, welcome to the forum! Smile

I know what you mean, this woman I know, is not yet separated from her husband and already she got the only decent available guy in our circle. I will never understand how some people are never without a partner, how it works, someone should explain that.
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#6
I appreciate all these responses.

Thank you!
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(10-09-2013, 09:33 AM)Peaches Wrote: hello, welcome to the forum! Smile

I know what you mean, this woman I know, is not yet separated from her husband and already she got the only decent available guy in our circle. I will never understand how some people are never without a partner, how it works, someone should explain that.

Yes, I was glad to help her out, we clicked, and it is true that I was the only decent guy in the circle--the others were unavailable or too shy. I must admit, I'm very happy.
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#8
Those who are attractive and possess a certain level of charisma have fewer barriers to overcome.
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#9
(10-09-2013, 05:39 PM)rdor Wrote: Those who are attractive and possess a certain level of charisma have fewer barriers to overcome.

It's true... scientifically proven... being attractive alone is enough to give you a huge edge in life, you'll get better jobs, be paid more, people will be nicer to you...

add a decent personality and charisma and then life gets easy...

it's easy to see what's on the outside... hard to see what's on the inside.
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(10-09-2013, 02:06 PM)Batman55 Wrote:
(10-09-2013, 09:33 AM)Peaches Wrote: hello, welcome to the forum! Smile

I know what you mean, this woman I know, is not yet separated from her husband and already she got the only decent available guy in our circle. I will never understand how some people are never without a partner, how it works, someone should explain that.

Yes, I was glad to help her out, we clicked, and it is true that I was the only decent guy in the circle--the others were unavailable or too shy. I must admit, I'm very happy.

LOL, never thought that was you Batman Toungue

By the way, this lady (sorry Batman) is not that attractive by current standards, a bit overweight, premature white hair, very plain clothes, it's all in the attitude
“If you judge people, you have no time to love them.”


“I'm fine. Well, I'm not fine - I'm here."
"Is there something wrong with that?"
"Absolutely.”

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