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Littlesecret
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Hey guys,
The last couple of days I've reached breaking point, some of you may know that I'm a carer for my foster parents (I call them nan and grandad) my grandad died last year of lung cancer and now I just care for my nan!
It was a very stressful week before my grandad died for many reasons, but one of the biggest was my nan telling me that there was something wrong with her - I don't want to go into too much detail because it's not my place to broadcast her business.
However, the problem she has is all mental but she believes it's an issue affecting her body.
I've told her many times it's not possible to have what she thinks she has but of course she doesn't believe me because she's believed she's had this issue for over 20 years!
I took her to the doctors this week and they have put her on some heavy medication that makes he sleep a lot and referred her to a psychaitric nurse that may take a month to see.
It's just so overwhelming, I've been dealing with this for a year on my own, I've had to go through her threatening to kill herself if I told anyone and her becoming increasing irrational. I managed to finally convince her to go to the doctors, I just want to see her happy and healthy.
She does have sons, two of them visit regularly but she acts completely fine with them, doesn't tell them of her issues and when I ask why she'll say ' I don't want them to worry or know' this makes me upset because it makes me feel like she doesn't care about me as much as she does them, am I wrong or am I being self-absorbed?
I just feel completely drained, I have my own issues with aniexty and depression so I don't feel equip to deal with this but I don't have a choice.
Anyways, is there anyone here that perhaps had someone they cared for that has mental health issues, or a family member - how did you deal with it?
I hope this makes senses and is not just cryptic ramblings.
The last couple of days I've reached breaking point, some of you may know that I'm a carer for my foster parents (I call them nan and grandad) my grandad died last year of lung cancer and now I just care for my nan!
It was a very stressful week before my grandad died for many reasons, but one of the biggest was my nan telling me that there was something wrong with her - I don't want to go into too much detail because it's not my place to broadcast her business.
However, the problem she has is all mental but she believes it's an issue affecting her body.
I've told her many times it's not possible to have what she thinks she has but of course she doesn't believe me because she's believed she's had this issue for over 20 years!
I took her to the doctors this week and they have put her on some heavy medication that makes he sleep a lot and referred her to a psychaitric nurse that may take a month to see.
It's just so overwhelming, I've been dealing with this for a year on my own, I've had to go through her threatening to kill herself if I told anyone and her becoming increasing irrational. I managed to finally convince her to go to the doctors, I just want to see her happy and healthy.
She does have sons, two of them visit regularly but she acts completely fine with them, doesn't tell them of her issues and when I ask why she'll say ' I don't want them to worry or know' this makes me upset because it makes me feel like she doesn't care about me as much as she does them, am I wrong or am I being self-absorbed?
I just feel completely drained, I have my own issues with aniexty and depression so I don't feel equip to deal with this but I don't have a choice.
Anyways, is there anyone here that perhaps had someone they cared for that has mental health issues, or a family member - how did you deal with it?
I hope this makes senses and is not just cryptic ramblings.