02-23-2017, 05:36 PM
(02-23-2017, 02:55 PM)ardour Wrote: Being needy, you tend to assume the same of others who aren't either indifferent or outright assholes towards you. 'Learning to like yourself first’, as corny as it sounds, is necessary if you want friendships that feel like they mean something, as opposed to "oh this person only wants my company because they're looking for validation".
Seems to be a big part of the reason why women generally don't value the 'attentions' of men who are insecure and awkward.
Please don't generalize. Not all of us women have the same standards in that. Insecure and awkward don't equate to being negative to everyone.