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Getting refered to as "The only single person here."
You are who you are; look at your own positives. Embrace your own individuality. There's nothing wrong with being single. If others are pressuring you to get a date that's their problem not yours. I'm single too and I would 100% prefer this lifestyle.
I think I'm at the endgame of this cycle. Almost all of my friends are now partnered up, whereas I've never really had anything more than a few drunken hookups in nightclubs (all of which I can count on a single hand over the space of my twenties). My reasons for not partnering up are not relevant to this thread, but I'd be lying if I said it didn't bother me, and it showed through my actions. Especially if I was crushing on someone at the time.

At this point, I am for all intents and purposes, ostracized from my last social circle entering my mid thirties. I think that somehow, I knew I'd arrive at this point all along, and all of my actions in the past could be chalked down to mental preparation for this outcome. I've been fairly lucky in the past 6 months, in that I've had a move in accommodation and job security to worry about. However, it appears that both of these are meeting favourable ends. With no immediate concerns to worry about, how much vidya would I need to play to convince myself that exile doesn't bother me?
I can see why that would hurt.

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