abbeyroad92
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There is a girl at my work who is always really nice to me, but in an almost patronizing way. Every time she sees me she acts all happy and says hi, and before i can even respond she's going "awwww" like i'm a baby. At first it felt really good that someone was being so nice to me, but now it almost makes me feel bad, like she's treating me like i'm really socially awkward or something. I walked into the break room the other day and she was sitting at a full table with a bunch of other people. I sat at another table and went on my phone. Then she brought attention to the fact that i was alone at the table, and went on to say that i was so cute. I know she didn't mean my looks. I'm pretty sure cute is just a nice way of saying i'm innocent or weird. On the one hand it's nice that she's nice to me, but on the other it sucks. I've never had a girlfriend before and i don't know how i ever will if i come off as innocent or "cute". I know this story sounds like something a 15 year old would say, but i'm 20 and being seen as "cute" is really starting to bother me. And i'm pretty sure she has a boyfriend so any hope that she likes me is gone. I don't know what my point is, but i just had to get that off my chest.