Tuathaniel
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Hey people,
A quick hello from someone who usually feels lonely because of depression and its effects on my life. I've been struggling with chronic depression for several years now, and as much as I try to "get over it," it just keeps on raping my brain on a daily basis.
The **** thing has cost me a bunch of friends, I guess partly because they get tired of my uselessness, and partly because it makes me withdraw rather frequently due to insecurities. I'm pretty sure more or less everyone I know, who used to be friends, now hate me. Nobody ever bothers to get in touch, at least, and after over a decade of actually having a social circle, I'm once again the one who doesn't get invited to parties or other exclusive events. Hence, I usually spend my days and evenings alone.
My one bright light is caring and loving boyfriend, but it's currently a long distance relationship where we get to see each other for a weekend once or twice a month. He's great support, but sometimes not the best listener, with a short attention span, which my depression loves to interpret as "I'm not really that important to him." Because I just suck that much, and I have no idea why he'd ever want to be with me.
When I'm not obsessing over how useless and unwanted I am, I try to work part time as a nurse (a job I hate) while I also just started on a bachelor's degree in informatics. So far I'm failing hard (**** you, Java!), because I'm probably the dumbest person on earth, so I've got that going for me as well.
I basically have no faith in myself nor my skills, hate myself profoundly, have no self worth, kinda despise my (previous) friends for ditching me, and occasionally I do consider suicide. Just your average ball of mess.
Thanks for reading, and take care.
T.
A quick hello from someone who usually feels lonely because of depression and its effects on my life. I've been struggling with chronic depression for several years now, and as much as I try to "get over it," it just keeps on raping my brain on a daily basis.
The **** thing has cost me a bunch of friends, I guess partly because they get tired of my uselessness, and partly because it makes me withdraw rather frequently due to insecurities. I'm pretty sure more or less everyone I know, who used to be friends, now hate me. Nobody ever bothers to get in touch, at least, and after over a decade of actually having a social circle, I'm once again the one who doesn't get invited to parties or other exclusive events. Hence, I usually spend my days and evenings alone.
My one bright light is caring and loving boyfriend, but it's currently a long distance relationship where we get to see each other for a weekend once or twice a month. He's great support, but sometimes not the best listener, with a short attention span, which my depression loves to interpret as "I'm not really that important to him." Because I just suck that much, and I have no idea why he'd ever want to be with me.
When I'm not obsessing over how useless and unwanted I am, I try to work part time as a nurse (a job I hate) while I also just started on a bachelor's degree in informatics. So far I'm failing hard (**** you, Java!), because I'm probably the dumbest person on earth, so I've got that going for me as well.
I basically have no faith in myself nor my skills, hate myself profoundly, have no self worth, kinda despise my (previous) friends for ditching me, and occasionally I do consider suicide. Just your average ball of mess.
Thanks for reading, and take care.
T.