morrowrd
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This is venting somewhat. When I have a problem with someone, I go right to them and confront them man to man. I will say, "I need a word with you in private." Usually this results in a heated conversation that ends good - most times but not all the time. I tend to be blunt and that has resulted in many times, people becoming offended, hurt, or somehow becoming an enemy of mine. It's a pattern that has followed me since childhood. I'm used to not being liked.
This f'n coworker of mine was rude over the phone, and I texted him shortly after and said, "I'd like a word with your in private. Come see me when you have time" and guess what? He didn't come and see me. Today that f'er showed up and pretended to be nice, said good morning when I arrived and I ignored him. Went to my office and dropped my bag off and went out to see if he was still around. He was obviously avoiding me, so I went to him. I told him I needed a few minutes and to come into the building and lets talk. He wanted to do it outside, so I went right up to him and started confronting. He walked away, which I said, "so you're just walking away?" He comes back with, "I'm doing my job, go do yours."
I'm used to people disagreeing with me, not liking me..... I think I'm used to it at least.
This f'n coworker of mine was rude over the phone, and I texted him shortly after and said, "I'd like a word with your in private. Come see me when you have time" and guess what? He didn't come and see me. Today that f'er showed up and pretended to be nice, said good morning when I arrived and I ignored him. Went to my office and dropped my bag off and went out to see if he was still around. He was obviously avoiding me, so I went to him. I told him I needed a few minutes and to come into the building and lets talk. He wanted to do it outside, so I went right up to him and started confronting. He walked away, which I said, "so you're just walking away?" He comes back with, "I'm doing my job, go do yours."
I'm used to people disagreeing with me, not liking me..... I think I'm used to it at least.