Does size matter?

[PyramidHead]

I always wondered, since I already read many articles, that say exactly the opposite of each other. Some say it matters, others say it isn't as important as mental and emotional qualities. Some say that other... how should I put it... qualities of the same body part matter more. However, I never read anyone who said that it doesn't matters at all. So I'm kinda interested to ask here.

So I ask everyone in the forum now: Is the size of a man's manhood truly a matter that could make a difference for having a relationship or not?

The question is for both, our guys and girls, but as well I would like to ask our guys only: Are you happy with your size? Or you feeling confident or not about it?

I would like to start answering, but to be honest, I'm never so sure about it. I don't dislike my size, but when I sometimes read opinions about it, I sure start to question it. Still, I'm over German average, so I maybe shouldn't be worried, but I rarely read that my size is seen as... enough.

 

[ThisSideOfTheRainbow]

None of that stuff matters. I have always been told I was big, but who cares, honestly? I would trade all that nonsense for just some peace and happiness in my life. Size may matter to some women, it may not matter to some women. As a human being I am more concerned about how a woman is going to treat me and if she is honest and has gratitude for this world than if she has a nice body or is good in bed. All that stuff is superficial in my opinion. A woman who told the truth and was unconditional in her love, and accepts me for my strengths, weaknesses, successes and failures would always trump any sort of physical characteristics in my book

 

[Tiina63]

It doesn't matter to me at all.

 

[Barbaloot]

Most women won't care about penis size when they are in a relationship with someone they care about. And I would say that penis size alone will never matter as much as a man's ability to do other things in the bedroom - such as focusing on the woman's needs in general and being good at oral sex. And if you are worried about that there are a lot of very informative books available to help you learn how to succeed in that department.

 

[Lady X]

It is something that would only impact the sexual area of a relationship - but in that context it doesn't really matter mostly.

I say "mostly" only due to one exception - it matters in cases of extremes. If you are exceptionally big, you can be too big for it to be comfortable for the partner, or there are medical conditions that would lead to such a small size that it makes it physically impossible to have sex.

Other than those extremes, both incredibly rare, it genuinely doesn't matter.


There are ways and means for both partners to enjoy intimacy whatever their physical form or ability

 

[PyramidHead]

The general opinion is really positive, in my opinion.
I'm just surprised, am I the only guy here, who may feel a bit insecure about it?

And yes, it may be just important on the sexual area, but that surely isn't an unimportant part. Just like the physical attraction in the dating process.
And sadly, even while I don't care about such things when it gets to others, I can't sure that they do the same thing with me. Sadly...

And even more sadly, not everyone is as great as the people in these forum.

 

[Rosebolt]

You are not the only guy on here feeling insecure about it. It's not a big issue for me, but i cannot honestly say i'm confident about my size. The answers your question have gathered help alot though.

 

[Tealeaf]

I wonder where the hype about size got started? Besides a few posts on one forum that doesn't exactly attract the... brightest crayons in the box, I've never heard female acquaintances/friends cite size as a reason to leave a relationship or lose interest. I've always heard that girth is preferable and technique is the most important.

 

[Limlim]

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[MissGuided]

^ +1 for Limlim's enormous penis

 

[Hero]

Surprisingly that song is quite catchy.

 

[ASnowyCanadian]

Date a girl with small hands. She'll think its huge

 

[Cucuboth]

I know that I am under average in size. Yes, I admit, I have a small penis. Sometimes I do feel insecure about it. I fear that, if a woman ever wants to see it, maybe she'll just laugh. Maybe that is why nobody has ever wanted to see it .... Although I can take solace, I guess, in that I can counter my lack of length with a higher than average libido.

It shouldn't matter though, I don't think. If a girl genuinely cares for you, it won't matter what size you are, or how much experience you do or don't have. Or it shouldn't matter ...

But in the end, I guess it's all a bit irrelevant if you can't find someone to have sex with.

 

[AFrozenSoul]

I say find a girl that fits. I am not sure how I feel about my size. The one girl I had said that I was plenty big. I also had close to 12 inches on her, height wise.
I will say that I am more likely to leave a girl for not meeting my libido requirements. Can being bigger help, yeah. However, I try to not let it get to me. It is better to believe what I am told than to search for the truth, in this case.

 

[Gutted]

I think it only matters if you've an insanely big one, or an insanely small one, lol. As for me, I've never had any concerns about mine

 

[blackdot]

Given that I am above average in all measurements, I have to say that size does not matter.

 

[Azariah]

Is the size of a man's manhood truly a matter that could make a difference for having a relationship or not?

Only to sex crazed people. A sex based relationship is not worth being in because no one has sex 24/7. Besides, it's not how big it is, it's how you use it. I've heard women's experiences where they prefer a smaller guy who pleasures them than a big guy who can't deliver satisfaction.

Are you happy with your size? Or you feeling confident or not about it?

I quote a man known as Biggie Smalls, "Ain't no dick like the one I got." I'm happy, happy that it's not smaller. I'm not confident enough to be seen naked. I'm small, dude. Tiny compared to porn stars. But it's not a source of low self-esteem.

What you should really be asking is:

Does size matter to me? If so, why?

 

[bulmabriefs144]

Size doesn't matter unless you have balls bigger than penis. That David statue is a freak.

 

[bodafuko]

Size matters, but bigger isn't 'always' better. Bigger, of course, being a relative term of comparison. Depending on who is asking and in what situation it is being asked, women will give conflicting answers.

The truth of the matter is that, yes, if your unit is too small for her to feel it...size matters.

Similarly, if your unit is large enough to piledrive her cervix...size matters.

Beyond that, about 97% of making a girl experience one (or ten) mindblowing orgasms has nothing to do with your dong.

 

[Sci-Fi]

I have a cousin that once said she couldn't understand why guys get so obsessed with the size of their dick, considering how big it starts out. They should be happy they still don't have a baby dick.

Truer words we never spoken.