fresia my life!

[Chris 2]

Yes I finally said the F word in my title, and I don't care.

I got in so much trouble yesterday, that my mom threaten to disown me and kick me out of the house, and can you guess what I did wrong?

Let me tell you guys this, you guys have all done this each and everyday, and that is sleep past 12am.

I slept at 3am, my mom can in sneak on me and hit me. She said I was watching quote "bad stuff" when I was on this chat room talking to Samba because I"m lonely, and I cannot sleep. She call me a disgrace SOB and make so many false accusation on me that I wish I didn't have a mom. I didn't steal, I didn't hurt a girl, I certainly did not do anything wrong or else 99% of the college student would be homeless or kick out of the house.

This is what being an Asian kids is like.

 

[Scott]

Yes I finally said the F word in my title, and I don't care.

I got in so much trouble yesterday, that my mom threaten to disown me and kick me out of the house, and can you guess what I did wrong?

Let me tell you guys this, you guys have all done this each and everyday, and that is sleep past 12am.

I slept at 3am, my mom can in sneak on me and hit me. She said I was watching quote "bad stuff" when I was on this chat room talking to Samba because I"m lonely, and I cannot sleep. She call me a disgrace SOB and make so many false accusation on me that I wish I didn't have a mom. I didn't steal, I didn't hurt a girl, I certainly did not do anything wrong or else 99% of the college student would be homeless or kick out of the house.

This is what being an Asian kids is like.

What's it got to do with being asian? You seem to have a very unhealthy hangup with that. I've never seen anyone else ever complain like this because they were from a particular place (or entire continent in this case). Be proud of who you are and where you're from.

If you hate being at home, can you not move out?

 

[Lonesome Crow]

You're not a kid...you're a man....the sooner you figure it out the better.

Shift gears...dude.
It's not all about you. Get out of yourself and go do something
for your mother or your family. When was that last time you
asked her , how she was doing ? She's a human being too ya know.
She has feelings and challenges in her life too.
She carried you inside of her for 9 months of her life..she raised
you, cooked for you, cleaned after you, put a roof over your head, loved you..as best she could.
As least you can do is show a little bit of gratitude for her.
What have you done for her lately ?

Take some positive actions...It's actaully good for ya. By doing things for her...you forget about your problems.
Imagine that...I read somewhere on ALL. If I help other people..I'm helping myself.
It's just transfering that principles and applying it in my real life in my everyday living.

well...get out and move out of her life...if you don't want to have a mom..lol what's stoping you ?

Lmao...I'm not that stupid, I'm living home with my parents ATM...I do stuff for my mom..lol
Wash her car...do chores around the house, pick up after myself, wash the dishes for her.
Give her money. So she can buy food and stuff.( bascailly for me..lmao)
Tell her I love her every so often...Ask her how's she's doing. Talk and listen
to her every so often. Like, get out of my own bullshit...becuase it's not all about me.
Both of my parents arn't getting any younger...they both have some health problems and
the last thing they need from me is my fucken bullshit and problems.
My parents are well-off...they don't need me around to do yard work and clean thier pool...that's not the piont.

Dude..practice being nice to your mom...when you get a babe to live with you...you bascailly have to do
the samething...except it's call "honey do..s "...lmao
Most relationship break up are from couples taking thier partners for granted ..dude. It's the same lesson.lol
Learn how to have a relationship with your mom. All relationships are not about *******...lmao

I'm fucken Asian too...
Date white chicks all the time
I don't give a fresia what some white dudes say or think about me...I'm not gay and they don't have nice boobs either...lmao
I need to shift gears..and get me an asian woman.lol

you're not going to read this...dude.lmao

 

[Caesium]

From what I've heard from people, being anything other than white in America is honeysuckle. Even here, in my school, people tend to stay away from Asian kids, and just regard them as humorous novelties, never taking them seriously. That's how the world is, it really sucks.

Your mum sounds a lot like mine actually Chris, although perhaps not so severe. Mine is quite over-protective too, I'm not allowed outside to parties or anything like that.

 

[Steel]

Well, its not *finally* you've used the F word in a title, look at your past threads and you will see that you use it on a regular basis.

See, a lot of this is down to you. You need to stop blaming other people for when things go wrong, and look to yourself. As I have said before.

Finally, be careful what you wish for.

 

[LonelyDragon]

From what I've heard from people, being anything other than white in America is honeysuckle.

Well, yes and no. In recent years there has been such a surge in "equal rights" that it's gone to the other extreme in a lot of cases. And that is in regards to race, sex , sexual preference and religious beliefs. Nowadays it's hard being a straight white Christian male because in the grand scheme of things we are the new minority. There is no such thing as our beloved "freedom of speech" as far as we are concerned even. All the other groups can say whatever they like but we have to keep our mouths shut for fear of offending one of the other groups. Go too far with it and we'll be arrested and charged with a "hate crime".

But Chris, I will tell you one thing. I doubt very much if being Asian has anything to do with your own mother's reaction. I just went back and scanned some of your old posts. Up til now I was under the impression you were in your mid teens or maybe just going into college. But then I saw something you said about living "20 years". Ever think maybe she's trying to tell you it's time to grow up? Someone your age should have outgrown living in his parent's basement playing video games and surfing the internet all night. I have to agree with Lonesome Crow and Scott. If you're not happy with how your mom treats you when she's the one supporting you, then move. Hell, I was paying my parents' rent by the time I was 17 and moved out before I was 19.

 

[Lonesome Crow]

I moved out when I when I was 18...it sucks to have to pay bills
and buy diapers

My mama..still loves me...she too had to dis-own my ass at 22
I remember that day very will...She was in tears saying that to me.
My ex-wf dis-owned me too, they call it a divorced in America.lol
I remember that day will too...I lost my super model wife
Like longly dargon said...somebody and something was tell'in me
I needed to change...lol

Oh heck no....i love my mom too much to wish I never have
her as my mom. No way man...if there's one woman that loves me
unconditionally..it is her. I pushed her beyound her limits acting the
way I was.

well..Obamma is elected president of the UAS.
The principle behind it is...there's no more fucken excuse, no matter
what race or color you are.

 

[LonelyDragon]

LoL@"longly dargon"

 

[Minus]

From what I've heard from people, being anything other than white in America is honeysuckle. Even here, in my school, people tend to stay away from Asian kids, and just regard them as humorous novelties, never taking them seriously. That's how the world is, it really sucks.

Locally we have a fair sized Asian population though i have never known anyone to consider any of them "novelties". Just to common for that. Of course the Asian population locally is no where near as great as in the area where Chris 2 lives.

I don't know that America has too much that is totally unique in the way of "race relations". As with most places where different groups intermingle there has been tension at times and there are even some extreme elements. There is plenty of room for improvement and i imagine there always will be. Still when a black kid can grow up to be president then "being anything other than white in America is honeysuckle" would seem to be a sweeping over generalization.

 

[EveWasFramed]

From what I've heard from people, being anything other than white in America is honeysuckle. Even here, in my school, people tend to stay away from Asian kids, and just regard them as humorous novelties, never taking them seriously. That's how the world is, it really sucks.

Locally we have a fair sized Asian population though i have never known anyone to consider any of them "novelties". Just to common for that. Of course the Asian population locally is no where near as great as in the area where Chris 2 lives.

I don't know that America has too much that is totally unique in the way of "race relations". As with most places where different groups intermingle there has been tension at times and there are even some extreme elements. There is plenty of room for improvement and i imagine there always will be. Still when a black kid can grow up to be president then "being anything other than white in America is honeysuckle" would seem to be a sweeping over generalization.

Very well said, Minus. *applauds*

EDIT: This is totally not relevant...
Where else but in America, can a poor black kid, grow up to be a rich white woman? lol, a not so veiled reference to Michael Jackson. Of course, he isn't rich anymore though. He's been reduced to selling his glove.

 

[Lonesome Crow]

lmao...I was the only asian kid in school. A couple of other asians
dudes , one of them was my best freind.
Yes..yes...kids can be crul and mean.

But ya know...the only asian chicks availiable were our sister...lmao
Dating white chicks were the only options we had....
No chicks or people in general was attracted to me ass when
I was negative about life...that's all i know and that's been my experince. It just drove people away.

Anyway...all of that didn't really have anything to do with anything
when it came to me being responsible for my life.
yes...it seem like I always had to earn a hard C in anything that I do.
Nothing came easy for me. But F-it any how...I'm not giving up on
myself....My self pity never got me anywhere. It just drove me fucken
nutz...lol

I have friends of all races, age and back ground today.

There's a big asian population near the bay area...
millions and millions.lol

There's not a big asain population where i live..it's dosn't matter.
I can drive 100 miles into San Deigo to certain area of the city...where
asians are the majority, if I'm that uncomfortiable or feel too rejected.
I can easily move there. It hasn't been the case...There's good friendly people
everywhere that dosn't care about your skin color...just you as the indiviual.

Chris lives in CA near the bay area...
The poor me I'm an asain kid...is just that...a poor me attitude.
I can related..becuase I'e been there...but fresia man, I'm not a professional...lol
This is the UAS ..man. It's a big ass country with all kinds of people.

wtf dude...I married a super model country gal from TX while i was in TX (she be white..lmao)..in th middle of the heart land
with plenty of biggots to spare...lol

 

[Bluecrab]

Anyone can have children. No license needed. No prerequisites. No test to pass. Only your own experiences and what ever was passed down to you from your own parents, to guide you in child rearing. Omg, the life of a fragile human being can be placed in the hands of completely incompetent idiots. Unfortunately it is our lot in life as humans, to take the good and leave the bad; even for those of us who can barely scrape any good up.


You are typical college age and should not feel as it you should not be living at home. If your parents are putting you through school, and not paying for housing, then they would expect you to be at home.

I am personally sorry that you are experiencing prejudice because of your race. I am lightly “mixed”. So lightly, that most can’t tell. So I am privy to bigotry that most are not. Those who say that racism is dead in the U.S. because a half black man was voted president, are just not aware of the facts behind elections. If they check into the amount of black people, (and other minorities) that voted for the first time in their lives, (some in their 80’s) and that will not vote again unless a black person is running, they would start to understand racism in the U.S.

It is true that what you think is important now, or feels devastating now, will change in the future. It comes with experience and age. Hold on, calm down, and do some research on young people who have no parents, and no home, and no schooling, or shoes, clothes, food, legs….. Then, get up and get out. Do anything. Take a walk. Just get moving. Over time, you will sleep better, and not sleep so late. And most important, find someone to talk to who is non-judgmental and can give you sound advice and be a good sounding board.

I am really sorry that you have to deal with this kind of crap in your life. Just living life is hard enough without having to live it for someone else. You have a lot of hard work ahead of you, to learn and grow beyond the B.S. But there is no easy fix, nothing is a snap out of it solution. It takes time to do the damage, and it takes time to undo it.

There is life after parents, school, sadness and loneliness. It will come, meanwhile try and make the best of what you have now, no matter how small it may seem.

I am sorry I did not answer this earlier, I wanted to give you support amongst the negativity. Be well, try to find peace, be true to yourself, and live life.

Take care.

 

[Bluey]

pick up after myself

I do stuff for her, I pick up after myself LMAO.. That was funny.

Finally, be careful what you wish for.

You know as soon as I seen the title of this thread I thought to myself Chris. I know who had made it be for I even looked. And ye be careful what you wish for man.

Oh heck no....i love my mom too much to wish I never have
her as my mom. No way man...if there's one woman that loves me
unconditionally..it is her. I pushed her beyound her limits acting the
way I was.

You know I always like reading your posts. You have so much hummer and knowledge in them.

I also have treated my mum badly in the past when things where not so great. I did this from about 15 to 21. Now I treat her with the respect she deserves and if it wasn't for her I myself probably would not be here. I resent that sometimes but I could not hurt her in that way.

Who else would care and love and give so much and with out wanting anything back in return but your mum. You only get one. Look after her.

Also I agree with Lonesome Crow, Your a man. If your not happy living with your parents and there rules move out. I moved out at 20. And a few years later started to get on better with my parents.

Bottom line is if your not happy with your life there really is only one person that can do anything about it.

 

[VanillaCreme]

Yes I finally said the F word in my title, and I don't care.

I got in so much trouble yesterday, that my mom threaten to disown me and kick me out of the house, and can you guess what I did wrong?

Let me tell you guys this, you guys have all done this each and everyday, and that is sleep past 12am.

I slept at 3am, my mom can in sneak on me and hit me. She said I was watching quote "bad stuff" when I was on this chat room talking to Samba because I"m lonely, and I cannot sleep. She call me a disgrace SOB and make so many false accusation on me that I wish I didn't have a mom. I didn't steal, I didn't hurt a girl, I certainly did not do anything wrong or else 99% of the college student would be homeless or kick out of the house.

This is what being an Asian kids is like.

The fresia do you mean "disown" you? Aren't you like 22? You're grown. Get over it. You disown a child when they're 15 or 16, when it matters. You're an adult. Get over it.

You're saying all this like you're 13. What "bad stuff"? It doesn't matter if you go to a porno convention. She couldn't stop you, or have any say in it. You're an adult by law.

And being Asian has nothing to with the fact you have a nutcase mom. And it has nothing to do with the fact that you are a nutcase. Get it through your head. Being Asian has absolutely nothing to do with anything. There are some Asian people who are complete opposite of what you do. So, you couldn't possibly blame that, or think it's the cause of your troubles.

 

[Estreen]

Yes I finally said the F word in my title, and I don't care.

I got in so much trouble yesterday, that my mom threaten to disown me and kick me out of the house, and can you guess what I did wrong?

Let me tell you guys this, you guys have all done this each and everyday, and that is sleep past 12am.

I slept at 3am, my mom can in sneak on me and hit me. She said I was watching quote "bad stuff" when I was on this chat room talking to Samba because I"m lonely, and I cannot sleep. She call me a disgrace SOB and make so many false accusation on me that I wish I didn't have a mom. I didn't steal, I didn't hurt a girl, I certainly did not do anything wrong or else 99% of the college student would be homeless or kick out of the house.

This is what being an Asian kids is like.

The fresia do you mean "disown" you? Aren't you like 22? You're grown. Get over it. You disown a child when they're 15 or 16, when it matters. You're an adult. Get over it.

You're saying all this like you're 13. What "bad stuff"? It doesn't matter if you go to a porno convention. She couldn't stop you, or have any say in it. You're an adult by law.

And being Asian has nothing to with the fact you have a nutcase mom. And it has nothing to do with the fact that you are a nutcase. Get it through your head. Being Asian has absolutely nothing to do with anything. There are some Asian people who are complete opposite of what you do. So, you couldn't possibly blame that, or think it's the cause of your troubles.

Thank you.

 

[IWTDIE]

Your mums strictness may just be to teach you discipline for life, you will need it.
Atleast your mum cares for you.