I was shy until the last year of high school where I went from quiet kid to ladies man. Anyways I met this girl and we dated for a year, during the whole time I stopped talking to all the other girls cause I wanted to be loyal to her. But she treated me like $HIT during the whole relationship, ignoring my calls for days, never complimenting me, I would always buy her cards or presents on our monthly anniversaries she never got me anything, even for Christmas! Then I find out that she cheated on me sooo many times, to the point where she was involved in other relationships at the same time she was with me. I'm not gonna say this effected my self-esteem personally, but my human nature reaction tells me it has..I don't know what to do, I don't want to talk to any more girls, but its been almost 2 months since I haven't talked to her Ive just been focusing on myself, trying to improve my image, working out, getting to know myself, etc. Any advice on what I should do?