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Several guys I've met (mainly online)...if I don't sleep with them just because they find me attractive...I get berated and called a prude. Just cause I don't spread my legs the moment a man looks my direction doesn't make me a prude!
I'm starting to actually hate men...well, not hate, but a lot of guys...I tend to look at them like they're users, losers and manipulative. A lot of girls with low self-esteem and that are desperate; do anything a man says even if they are uncomfortable with it. I get lonely now and then but I have more self-respect than to let my body be used and open myself to the world of STDs and pregnancy which a lot of girls run into. It would emotionally traumatize me to be used like that.
It seems impossible...I hear people complaining about having to wait a month and how crazy that is...good god, it's going to be a long time for whoever is my next partner. I don't just sleep with anyone that looks attractive to me otherwise I would have slept with about a hundreds of people already!
I believe in love and when I'm ready then I'll be ready...it seems impossible to have that...then guys say, no sex = no love. Really? Then why are so many people not loving their one-night stands and girls that they've pumped and dumped. Pretty much everyone around me is a young single mom raising a baby on their own and the man ran away.
Of course, I believe if you love someone too you'll have sex...but of course that sex without love is possible as well...it's hard to find out what's real or not cause so many people are liars and think of only of themselves...people are so selfish...life is so short...why hurt others?? If some girl won't sleep with you then stop harassing her and find girls like yourself!! I don't try to change a player into a marrying man...I tell them upfront what I am and what I don't want (which is them)...then they berate me and try to change me which doesn't work!! Oy...when it comes to desperation...it is so unattractive and gross...makes me look down on them more...I find a lot of guys get angry at me (they don't even like me as a person...let alone love me...they feel entitled to my body) and their eyes bulging out...so grossss...puke...
And before anyone spazzes out...I'm not talking about ALL men...just THOSE men so if you're offended, maybe you're one of them??
I'm starting to actually hate men...well, not hate, but a lot of guys...I tend to look at them like they're users, losers and manipulative. A lot of girls with low self-esteem and that are desperate; do anything a man says even if they are uncomfortable with it. I get lonely now and then but I have more self-respect than to let my body be used and open myself to the world of STDs and pregnancy which a lot of girls run into. It would emotionally traumatize me to be used like that.
It seems impossible...I hear people complaining about having to wait a month and how crazy that is...good god, it's going to be a long time for whoever is my next partner. I don't just sleep with anyone that looks attractive to me otherwise I would have slept with about a hundreds of people already!
I believe in love and when I'm ready then I'll be ready...it seems impossible to have that...then guys say, no sex = no love. Really? Then why are so many people not loving their one-night stands and girls that they've pumped and dumped. Pretty much everyone around me is a young single mom raising a baby on their own and the man ran away.
Of course, I believe if you love someone too you'll have sex...but of course that sex without love is possible as well...it's hard to find out what's real or not cause so many people are liars and think of only of themselves...people are so selfish...life is so short...why hurt others?? If some girl won't sleep with you then stop harassing her and find girls like yourself!! I don't try to change a player into a marrying man...I tell them upfront what I am and what I don't want (which is them)...then they berate me and try to change me which doesn't work!! Oy...when it comes to desperation...it is so unattractive and gross...makes me look down on them more...I find a lot of guys get angry at me (they don't even like me as a person...let alone love me...they feel entitled to my body) and their eyes bulging out...so grossss...puke...
And before anyone spazzes out...I'm not talking about ALL men...just THOSE men so if you're offended, maybe you're one of them??