I've always been misanthropic. As a little girl I always was, even if I didn't know the word for it. To sum up my early days of life (to spare you lot of a very long and dull story) I was neglected, bullied, and abused (only emotionally and psychologically). I have this burned foot. It used to make me feel ashamed because I didn't want people to see it. I used to think it would be an impediment in my quest for friendship. It wasn't. How often do people examine feet in judging a person's character? Never, lol. Alright but the problem doesn't concern my scars. It has to do with my interaction with people.
I don't have trouble making friends or striking the occasional conversation with people. I do, however, have trouble in keeping them. I know it has to do with my misanthropy. I become repulsed every time they are in my presence. I am filled with a deep loathing and I find myself dwelling on dark thoughts. My friends always come to me for advice. I like it but at the same time I detest it. I have to always restrain myself from saying the wrong things that could end up destroying them. They like me. I am a well respected and intelligent being. I was even told that I make an excellent role model. If they only knew the things that crossed my mind at the mention of these words. If only...
I am really trying to change my stripes but these feelings keep coming back. I made up my type of person that I'd like to be and so far I'm following just right. I just want to rid myself of these unfavorable characteristics. I've been to therapy twice but that only seems to fuel my restlessness. Does it help to add that I am bipolar? It makes me even worse. The only time in my life that I felt awful was when I felt nothing for an entire week. I could have died you know? Ever felt nothing? Personally I rather have every bone in my body broken than to experience such a horrendous thing as that.
So, my dear fellows, what advice or words of wisdom can you offer me?
I don't have trouble making friends or striking the occasional conversation with people. I do, however, have trouble in keeping them. I know it has to do with my misanthropy. I become repulsed every time they are in my presence. I am filled with a deep loathing and I find myself dwelling on dark thoughts. My friends always come to me for advice. I like it but at the same time I detest it. I have to always restrain myself from saying the wrong things that could end up destroying them. They like me. I am a well respected and intelligent being. I was even told that I make an excellent role model. If they only knew the things that crossed my mind at the mention of these words. If only...
I am really trying to change my stripes but these feelings keep coming back. I made up my type of person that I'd like to be and so far I'm following just right. I just want to rid myself of these unfavorable characteristics. I've been to therapy twice but that only seems to fuel my restlessness. Does it help to add that I am bipolar? It makes me even worse. The only time in my life that I felt awful was when I felt nothing for an entire week. I could have died you know? Ever felt nothing? Personally I rather have every bone in my body broken than to experience such a horrendous thing as that.
So, my dear fellows, what advice or words of wisdom can you offer me?