Is it bad that I seek emotional connection before having sex?

[wolvesjr]

It's definitely not bad and don't let anyone try to tell you it is. Some people need the connection before they can enjoy it, for others it's purely a physical release. Neither way of looking at it is wrong, it's what works best for them.

What you decide has to feel right for you.

 

[ordinaryDude]

Thanks for the replies.

I can see most of the people here actually appreciates what I believe, but honestly speaking at times even I get really confused on what to do. Sometimes I feel such sexual urge, but on the other hand I'm still single, cos I have not many girls who I can attach with or who have similar interests to mine(a few who I found, I can count them in one finger, all were engaged when or wherever I met them).

Sometimes, when my urge really kicks off, and I feel really lonely, I tend to get relaxed to on that matter and try to change my attitude on the matter, but I revert back to my actual stand very quickly. These days it's turning into a constant battle within myself, I wonder how long it will go on.