you know what. I am sooo impressed with this community...anywhere else that a woman would post as "lonely lesbian, 18yo" there would've been a flock of sexist and sleezy guys on the doorstep of a post. but here everyone has been so great to here. seriously this is such great sign of the goodness of the people here =] (or at least the ones who have commented/resisted the urge to comment ) i look forward to getting to know you all alot better