Looking for a special friend.(fantasy lover)

[Chilly man]

I am bi-sexual and 16 years old. I cannot practise my sexual preference in real life because it is against my religion, but I still have emotions and need release for them. I don't know if what I want is possible, but I thought this would be a way for me to release my emotions without actually committing the sin of homosexuality. I would like to have an online friend that has the same feelings as I do to have an online relationship. No meeting or sending porn or anything like that, just correspondence online sharing our feelings with each other without ever meeting. I don't know if this is against any rules, if it is I apologize but I need someone to care for me and for me to care for without doing anyrhing really wrong. Is this possible?

 

[Freya]

I'm sure as you grow older you will find that all sorts of relationships are 'possible'...whether you find what you are looking for here...who knows?

 

[Nyktimos]

This sounds a difficult situation to be in. I really hope you find what you're looking for.

 

[Athiest #001]

Listen to your own heart, go where it guides you, and don't believe anyone who tells you that you cant be happy the way you are.

 

[Punisher]

I am bi-sexual and 16 years old. I cannot practise my sexual preference in real life because it is against my religion, but I still have emotions and need release for them. I don't know if what I want is possible, but I thought this would be a way for me to release my emotions without actually committing the sin of homosexuality. I would like to have an online friend that has the same feelings as I do to have an online relationship. No meeting or sending porn or anything like that, just correspondence online sharing our feelings with each other without ever meeting. I don't know if this is against any rules, if it is I apologize but I need someone to care for me and for me to care for without doing anyrhing really wrong. Is this possible?

If you're a Christian:

Jesus didn't say anything against homosexuality = Not a sin. Afterall, it's only what Jesus said that matters.

I have an interesting article on 'Christianity and homosexuals'. If you want it just PM me and i'll gladly send it to you

 

[Naleena]

Chilly Man, I want to ask you a few questions for you to think about. Don't post your answers or anything....just think these over. First, is it YOUR religion or is it the religion of your parents? Is it what you choose or what you grew up with?
Are you living someone elses beliefs and denying living your own life? I'm not here to change your religion or beliefs if that is truely YOUR faith. We can't help who we love or who we are attracted to as far as gender goes. It's in our genes, it's how we are made. A straight person can't be gay and a gay person can't be straight. There is absolutely NOTHING wrong with you for being who you are. I hope when you are older, you can accept that. I hope you will dare to question what you have been taught and other peoples ideas and follow your heart and find your own truth. So many times we live other peoples ideas of what we should be and we deny ourselves our birthright to be who we are.

 

[Melanie]

I think your god/godess/etc./// would want you to be who you are and find happiness in life.

 

[Chilly man]

Thank you for your comments. You are really nice people and I will think about what each of you said. Thanks again.