L. Lawliet
Member
Hi everyone,
First time posting on ANY forums, I usually just read them but not making a thread. Tmr, I got a date. And, its my first one. OMFG. I am just like freaking nervous, and really really fear that I might just look like an idiot. I met this girl in my math class and her math wasn't really gd so I always teach her math, then after a very very short time. And she told me she love me during movie time at school. I kinda suspected already, but, I don't know about her much, I don't even talk to her every lesson. Neither did I accepted or refused her love. After she told me she love her, I am really nervous every time she comes to me. I accepted her love a few days after cause I think she's pretty friendly (and hot) and I got a gd feeling towards her. She was very aggressive (to ask me out or talk to me, not the sex part), but I am like those geeks or freaks that all ways stay at home, but look absolutely not alike to any geek at school, well, I hang out with both the freaks and the cools, so I was pretty shy, so its like she's being the male and I am the female (which I'm). I didn't date her(or get dated) cause I was never familiar with romance, it was my first love, I'm just totally shy. But now, she's leaving my school to study overseas in the UK, Thurday's the day she leaves. So I did all the best I could, well I just SMS her to go out with me ( she stopped inviting me to dates cause I said that I'm busy) and she was happy to go out.
Tmr is the day, and I just really needs some luck or whatever to let it be a successful date.
Questions for you guys:
1. How old were you when you have your first date? I am 13 and do you think its too early or so?
2. How was your first date?
3. How did you get your girlfriend/boyfriend
My Ultimate Question:
HOW DO YOU DEAL WITH YOUR PARENTS? DO YOU TELL THEM YOU GOT A GIRLFRIEND/BOYFRIEND? DO YOU TELL THEM YOU'RE GOING TO A DATE OR YOU TELL THEM A LIE?( as for me, all my family members are on a trip to USA for ten days, been waiting for this day long time ago)
Even if you never have a date, think what will you do in the situation
Maybe I posted this at the wrong place, as it should be in the "Success Stories & Positive Experiences" or maybe it will be a failure
Update Next Day
Just as male do on their first, date, they arrive early. I was ten minutes early, fantastic.Then I wait, waited and waited, till I SMS her and she said she was coming.And so again I waited and waited and SMS her again. And I waited and waited. Till, its was a hour after the designated time! I close friend even said to me that she might be tricking me. Well, I didn't care much. I'm just so nervous, that its good to let me relax myself. But due to the fact that its been a very long time since I talked to her, and I don't know her much, and the fact that she look so mature, I was so nervous that my nerves system broke down. I was like stiff like a stone and not too talkative as I was normally. But I finally settled down when we got into the restaurant, we chatted for a pretty long time and there was no dead air. Fantastic. But due to the fact that she gotta take care of her little brother, she gotta leave early.
The point about this date is that, I don't really feel we're a couple, but two really really close friends, and the other fact is that we have no body contact. You may say that you don't do that on first dates but we hold hands before at math lessons. I want to hold her hand and hug her but I just didn't. But well after all, I did really in fact date her, and I'm glad I did it as she's leaving my hometown in a few days.
My dad called during the date and I lied to him that I was in my friend's home (a friend my dad knew). I figured that it would be too sudden to tell him about this , since also he's at overseas, and it would give me unimaginable side effects. So maybe I will tell my parents when I'm older, and accept the fact that ppl dates other ppl. I think they will let me have this girlfriend as my parents are pretty friendly and accpeted that my 18 years old sister have a boy friend but never told us, but i just don't like the fact that they ask too much question that nobody wants to answear.
P.S I never called her any nick-name(no funkie names) and thanks for every comments, you just made my day a even better day
First time posting on ANY forums, I usually just read them but not making a thread. Tmr, I got a date. And, its my first one. OMFG. I am just like freaking nervous, and really really fear that I might just look like an idiot. I met this girl in my math class and her math wasn't really gd so I always teach her math, then after a very very short time. And she told me she love me during movie time at school. I kinda suspected already, but, I don't know about her much, I don't even talk to her every lesson. Neither did I accepted or refused her love. After she told me she love her, I am really nervous every time she comes to me. I accepted her love a few days after cause I think she's pretty friendly (and hot) and I got a gd feeling towards her. She was very aggressive (to ask me out or talk to me, not the sex part), but I am like those geeks or freaks that all ways stay at home, but look absolutely not alike to any geek at school, well, I hang out with both the freaks and the cools, so I was pretty shy, so its like she's being the male and I am the female (which I'm). I didn't date her(or get dated) cause I was never familiar with romance, it was my first love, I'm just totally shy. But now, she's leaving my school to study overseas in the UK, Thurday's the day she leaves. So I did all the best I could, well I just SMS her to go out with me ( she stopped inviting me to dates cause I said that I'm busy) and she was happy to go out.
Tmr is the day, and I just really needs some luck or whatever to let it be a successful date.
Questions for you guys:
1. How old were you when you have your first date? I am 13 and do you think its too early or so?
2. How was your first date?
3. How did you get your girlfriend/boyfriend
My Ultimate Question:
HOW DO YOU DEAL WITH YOUR PARENTS? DO YOU TELL THEM YOU GOT A GIRLFRIEND/BOYFRIEND? DO YOU TELL THEM YOU'RE GOING TO A DATE OR YOU TELL THEM A LIE?( as for me, all my family members are on a trip to USA for ten days, been waiting for this day long time ago)
Even if you never have a date, think what will you do in the situation
Maybe I posted this at the wrong place, as it should be in the "Success Stories & Positive Experiences" or maybe it will be a failure
Update Next Day
Just as male do on their first, date, they arrive early. I was ten minutes early, fantastic.Then I wait, waited and waited, till I SMS her and she said she was coming.And so again I waited and waited and SMS her again. And I waited and waited. Till, its was a hour after the designated time! I close friend even said to me that she might be tricking me. Well, I didn't care much. I'm just so nervous, that its good to let me relax myself. But due to the fact that its been a very long time since I talked to her, and I don't know her much, and the fact that she look so mature, I was so nervous that my nerves system broke down. I was like stiff like a stone and not too talkative as I was normally. But I finally settled down when we got into the restaurant, we chatted for a pretty long time and there was no dead air. Fantastic. But due to the fact that she gotta take care of her little brother, she gotta leave early.
The point about this date is that, I don't really feel we're a couple, but two really really close friends, and the other fact is that we have no body contact. You may say that you don't do that on first dates but we hold hands before at math lessons. I want to hold her hand and hug her but I just didn't. But well after all, I did really in fact date her, and I'm glad I did it as she's leaving my hometown in a few days.
My dad called during the date and I lied to him that I was in my friend's home (a friend my dad knew). I figured that it would be too sudden to tell him about this , since also he's at overseas, and it would give me unimaginable side effects. So maybe I will tell my parents when I'm older, and accept the fact that ppl dates other ppl. I think they will let me have this girlfriend as my parents are pretty friendly and accpeted that my 18 years old sister have a boy friend but never told us, but i just don't like the fact that they ask too much question that nobody wants to answear.
P.S I never called her any nick-name(no funkie names) and thanks for every comments, you just made my day a even better day
