omarlittle
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Hey guys, havent posted here in a while but I've still been lurking and reading. So about a month ago I finally bit the bullet and signed up for an online dating site. I figured it was a low risk, high reward. Most girls dont respond to my messages but I dont really get bothered by it too much. I did have some friendly conversations with a few, and even a couple flat out called me attractive/cute which REALLY boosted my confidence.
So the other day, I met up with this one girl I had been messaging. Now, I am only an average looking guy and I know its not good to put girls on a pedestal but man this girl is very attractive, def out of my league. I'm surprised because I didn't let this get to me and I thought the "date" actually went really well. She's really cool. We hung out for like 2 hours and the conversation kept going for the most part. We hugged it out at the end of the night. I texted her a couple hours after our date and we kept some friendly convo going on for a bit. I dont want to seem so needy though so I wont contact her for a couple of days.
Here's the tricky part...she's new to town and just moved like 2 weeks ago. So part of her online profile did hint that she was trying to make new friends in a new city. So what does that mean for me lol? Is that the only reason that a cute girl like her agreed to go out on a "date" with me? How do I avoid the friendzone (if I'm not already in it)?
So I kinda need some advice. What's the next course of action? Keep in mind that I have never been in a relationship before (loser!) so this is new territory for me. I really dont want to fresia this up! I'm planning to maybe ask her out again next weekend (1 week seems like a good enough distance). But how can I make sure that she knows I'm interested in being more than friends? And how can I tell if she feels the same way? Should I go in for the kiss on the second date? I dont want to quickly mess things up...but again I also dont want her to think we're just friends.
Sorry for the super long post but I'm not sure where else to go. I may be overthinking this but again, I'm new to this dating/relationship stuff. I am excited/nervous about the possibilities.
So the other day, I met up with this one girl I had been messaging. Now, I am only an average looking guy and I know its not good to put girls on a pedestal but man this girl is very attractive, def out of my league. I'm surprised because I didn't let this get to me and I thought the "date" actually went really well. She's really cool. We hung out for like 2 hours and the conversation kept going for the most part. We hugged it out at the end of the night. I texted her a couple hours after our date and we kept some friendly convo going on for a bit. I dont want to seem so needy though so I wont contact her for a couple of days.
Here's the tricky part...she's new to town and just moved like 2 weeks ago. So part of her online profile did hint that she was trying to make new friends in a new city. So what does that mean for me lol? Is that the only reason that a cute girl like her agreed to go out on a "date" with me? How do I avoid the friendzone (if I'm not already in it)?
So I kinda need some advice. What's the next course of action? Keep in mind that I have never been in a relationship before (loser!) so this is new territory for me. I really dont want to fresia this up! I'm planning to maybe ask her out again next weekend (1 week seems like a good enough distance). But how can I make sure that she knows I'm interested in being more than friends? And how can I tell if she feels the same way? Should I go in for the kiss on the second date? I dont want to quickly mess things up...but again I also dont want her to think we're just friends.
Sorry for the super long post but I'm not sure where else to go. I may be overthinking this but again, I'm new to this dating/relationship stuff. I am excited/nervous about the possibilities.