hey there.. yeah ive got social phobia too.. its so **** hard to make friends, and i love having them! i made up my mind when i got here, that i was going to get out there and whatever, but i have to have a few drinks before i can say two words to someone and yeah, sure at the local bar, it seems like everyone likes me.. but after going a few times, i realised its just a novelty factor i guess.. someone new (im in a small town in missouri at the moment, just moved here from australia) .. i dont know. its soo hard to talk to people! how do u know what to say? like u dont want to offend them or anything, and u dont want to seem too familiar to someone u dont know, u dont know what their sense of humour is like, or anything.. and like it seems like at this age, everyone has already established friendships and such and they dont need or want anymore close friends.. anyway thats just how i feel about it