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Rosebolt
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It's been less than a month since i joined this forum, altough it certainly feels much longer. At the beginning of this, a reply on here changed my life for the better. My ongoing depression was over, and i didn't have to worry about how i should climb the fence to the train anymore.
Of course, life is still life, with its ups and downs, and i'm feeling myself drop into a down again. I want to prevent this, i won't let this attitude be taken from me now i finally have it, so that's why i'm here typing this.
In that little month, alot has changed, a new chapter in my life has just begun. Not only forum related, i remember posting a panic-reaction-thread to a situation which happened to my friendship with my would-be soulmate. This is still going on, since she has her new boyfriend, which happened about 3 weeks ago or so, maybe 4, she kind of forgot about me. She still talks to me and appears nice, but never ever asks anymore how my life is going, except for the mandatory "how r u." I believe in fate, and as i said, i think a new chapter has just begun, and this is a part of it. So i want to let go of her, and i'm in the process of doing that.
That is not the problem however, we always talked day in day out about our problems and kept each other going, now that that is gone, and also rendered unnecessary to a degree, alot of social energy has nowhere to go anymore, and i feel empty because of it. I met some great people on here, which helps alot, but my insecurities are still taking a rise. Afraid to say something wrong, afraid to be uninteresting to those people, and just thinking i'm very dumb. You know, the usual stuff. I believe that has to do with the sudden change, and will go away eventually, but not on itself. Hence why i am writing this. Part of the change is also that i will begin my job soon, which is *spoiledkidalert* my first time in life. I'm very much looking forward to this, but still, a change is a change, though i don't believe it to impact me in any significant manner.
Also good to mention might be that i feel i should be doing more on this forum in terms of reacting, helping, and generally contributing. My "connecting" thread seems to start rolling again, so i do feel a bit more useful, but still.
So, as a summary, my insecurities are rising and i kind of need your help to keep me going, i guess.
Thanks alot for reading, it means alot to me, believe it or not.
Of course, life is still life, with its ups and downs, and i'm feeling myself drop into a down again. I want to prevent this, i won't let this attitude be taken from me now i finally have it, so that's why i'm here typing this.
In that little month, alot has changed, a new chapter in my life has just begun. Not only forum related, i remember posting a panic-reaction-thread to a situation which happened to my friendship with my would-be soulmate. This is still going on, since she has her new boyfriend, which happened about 3 weeks ago or so, maybe 4, she kind of forgot about me. She still talks to me and appears nice, but never ever asks anymore how my life is going, except for the mandatory "how r u." I believe in fate, and as i said, i think a new chapter has just begun, and this is a part of it. So i want to let go of her, and i'm in the process of doing that.
That is not the problem however, we always talked day in day out about our problems and kept each other going, now that that is gone, and also rendered unnecessary to a degree, alot of social energy has nowhere to go anymore, and i feel empty because of it. I met some great people on here, which helps alot, but my insecurities are still taking a rise. Afraid to say something wrong, afraid to be uninteresting to those people, and just thinking i'm very dumb. You know, the usual stuff. I believe that has to do with the sudden change, and will go away eventually, but not on itself. Hence why i am writing this. Part of the change is also that i will begin my job soon, which is *spoiledkidalert* my first time in life. I'm very much looking forward to this, but still, a change is a change, though i don't believe it to impact me in any significant manner.
Also good to mention might be that i feel i should be doing more on this forum in terms of reacting, helping, and generally contributing. My "connecting" thread seems to start rolling again, so i do feel a bit more useful, but still.
So, as a summary, my insecurities are rising and i kind of need your help to keep me going, i guess.
Thanks alot for reading, it means alot to me, believe it or not.