Hello all.
There is something I have been thinking of doing, for quite a while now, but I remain undecided if it is a good idea to even bother.
I know an email of a girl that I like, and that I have liked for the past 2-3 years.
She is someone that if I could choose anyone to get to know, anybody at all, it would be her. First pick.
I'm pretty sure she likes me too, but just 'likes' because I think she knows I am a nice, or at least a gentle, person. Not so sure however she likes me in a special way / is attracted to me.
The dilemma is, I don't see her very often at all, don't really know a whole lot about her, and I am not comfortable approaching her, because I will get too anxious. So although I think it would probably be best to just approach her, I don't think that I will ever have that opportunity in which the time is right and I am in the right mood. Most of the time when I do see her, which is rare, I'm too anxious to even look at her and say hello. And the more I think about it, the more anxious I get. She may by now even think I am weird or worse. I have talked to her briefly several times before, but those were quite some time ago.
So... should I email her something?
I'm not very good at understanding social rules. I'm not sure if doing this would be weird/creepy? or might it be sort of sweet? or just inappropriate?
There is something I have been thinking of doing, for quite a while now, but I remain undecided if it is a good idea to even bother.
I know an email of a girl that I like, and that I have liked for the past 2-3 years.
She is someone that if I could choose anyone to get to know, anybody at all, it would be her. First pick.
I'm pretty sure she likes me too, but just 'likes' because I think she knows I am a nice, or at least a gentle, person. Not so sure however she likes me in a special way / is attracted to me.
The dilemma is, I don't see her very often at all, don't really know a whole lot about her, and I am not comfortable approaching her, because I will get too anxious. So although I think it would probably be best to just approach her, I don't think that I will ever have that opportunity in which the time is right and I am in the right mood. Most of the time when I do see her, which is rare, I'm too anxious to even look at her and say hello. And the more I think about it, the more anxious I get. She may by now even think I am weird or worse. I have talked to her briefly several times before, but those were quite some time ago.
So... should I email her something?
I'm not very good at understanding social rules. I'm not sure if doing this would be weird/creepy? or might it be sort of sweet? or just inappropriate?