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To any mods who may be reading this, is there a way that threads about eugenics can be immediately closed or moved to the debate section of the forum? They seem to devolve into arguments quite rapidly.
Despicable Me said:It is ironic you'd say this, because the same applies to me and everyone else here. So if you do not like what I have to say then why is anyone to care? Why is anyone to care about anything either of us say, for that matter?TheRealCallie said:You don't have to like what I say. I don't really care if you do or not.
The truth is what matters here, not what is said or isn't said.
Yeah, I guess you really do love that excuse, since you've used it yourself. I'm not admitting I'm wrong about anything and I won't because I'm not. He unfairly blamed "people like" lowlander because he doesn't want to admit to himself that he's the one that made his life miserable, and that's true for anyone, not just him.Despicable Me said:I always love this excuse. It's always the excuse of someone who knows they are wrong and does not want to admit it. They start calling their beliefs and statements "opinions" and then act as if there is some sort of fundamental entitlement to stating these horrible things and hurting other people. As if anyone ever gave you that right.TheRealCallie said:I'm entitled to my opinion and I said it.
I've seen this enough times to know that it is complete nonsense. No one has ever entitled you to state things that aren't true. In fact, that is THE fundamental premise of wrong-doing. What we call 'lies'. Recognize it.
Despicable Me said:And I'm not looking to coddle you or anyone else either. The difference is I have the facts and you're just laying down blame and accusing people for being a victim.TheRealCallie said:I'm not looking to coddle people and I never will do that. Take what you like and leave the rest, m'kay?
You really don't get it, do you?
Well, I didn't like anything you had to say, and I won't "leave the rest". Because harmful statements are harmful, and I don't sit by and idly watch as people do harm to others. It's something that I've had to learn not to tolerate, even slightly.
So I will not leave the rest. If you want to argue, then explain your statements. How can you blame him for his circumstances? And how can you blame a complete stranger? Recognize your hypocrisy.
Maybe you don't like what he says, but that doesn't entitle you to any right to suggest he is to blame for everything that happens to him. As I said before, wrong is wrong. If you say you own up to your mistakes, then do what is right here and own up to this one.
I'm not looking to offend you, but do realize what sort of harm you're doing. Blaming someone for blaming someone isn't right, and it's even worse when your blame is for things not even relevant to the act.
I don't want to be cruel here, but what you're doing is very much like the people who blame rape victims for "wanting it", when the person being accused is someone they trust. The situation is obviously very different, but the reasoning is exactly the same - and it is horrific. There is absolutely no logic to it whatsoever. This is something you NEED to recognize.
Facts are facts and not to be confused with opinions, as you are doing. If your "point of view" does not translate over to those facts then you are wrong, regardless.Wayfarer said:Third, this is clearly a matter of opinions. You can't expect to bash all people who think differently and call them liars because they don't believe in your point of view.
Despicable Me said:I'm not arguing to dismiss anyone's opinions here. I was arguing to prove a point about getting your facts right and not mistaking your opinions and thoughts as facts.
Disclaimers do not excuse you from being rude, malicious, and hurtful.TheRealCallie said:Despicable Me said:I'm not arguing to dismiss anyone's opinions here. I was arguing to prove a point about getting your facts right and not mistaking your opinions and thoughts as facts.
There's a disclaimer in my siggy for a reason, perhaps you should try reading it.
Despicable Me said:Disclaimers do not excuse you from being rude, malicious, and hurtful.TheRealCallie said:Despicable Me said:I'm not arguing to dismiss anyone's opinions here. I was arguing to prove a point about getting your facts right and not mistaking your opinions and thoughts as facts.
There's a disclaimer in my siggy for a reason, perhaps you should try reading it.
If you don't know this already then allow me to be the one to teach you.
Yep, the old 'act innocent' routine. Quite familiar with that one, too.TheRealCallie said:Yeah, because it's ME that's in this thread insulting people. Lol
The point of my siggy is that what I write are not FACTS, as you are so hell bent on making them, they are MY OPINIONS. Seriously, what the fresia, dude?
Here you clearly accuse him of causing his own problems - ignoring the obvious fact you know nothing about him or his problems.TheRealCallie said:You have no hope because you won't allow yourself to give yourself any. That's on YOU! Stop blaming other people for your life being as it is and start taking responsibility for yourself!
there is no hope said:This isn't about opinions, this is about things that actually happened or are happening now, and an interpretation of why those things are happening. At least, that's my part and my intention.
I could say the same thing about you thinking you know me better than I know myself. But really, what point do comments like that really make besides just being disrespectful?Lowlander said:It's funny how Despicable Me thinks they know Callie better than Callie. How does that work?
Wayfarer said:there is no hope said:This isn't about opinions, this is about things that actually happened or are happening now, and an interpretation of why those things are happening. At least, that's my part and my intention.
With the only difference being that things that actually happened are facts, while interpretations are opinions. Just wanted to point out this. No offense meant.
I haven't come here to insult anyone. Anyone who finds the truth to be insulting should probably re-evaluate their perspective on life.Lowlander said:Quitting is indeed a good advice in this case, I thank you for that. I'd advice you to quit this topic as well though, before you insult more people.
First off, when I say I don't mean it, I don't mean it. Second I was not attacking your opinion. It was actually meant as an answer to Despicable Me, which was saying I can't differentiate between opinions and facts. I guess I should have specified it, my bad.there is no hope said:1. Of course offense is meant. So there's a fairly obvious lie from the start, one that in my OPINION (hur hur) is deliberately intended to form an argument appealing to brute power more than anything else. If you can prove the intention was not offensive then that's on you, but regardless of the intention, it is offensive. You just invalidated my argument on the basis that I am subhuman and retarded in your judgement, more than anything else.
hmm I suggest you look up the definition of judgment first. I also could easily throw these words back at you, but I won't. Read the whole post first.there is no hope said:3. This sort of thinking leads to the conclusion that judgements are personal and arbitrary. Essentially, any critical thinking process is replaced by doublethink, and reality becomes whatever someone wants it to be.
Whoever said this?there is no hope said:4. In the end, some people clearly believe that their opinions are more factual than mine, and that argument is essentially rooted in eugenic reasoning - I am invalid and lesser than them, and therefore they can decide my life. It is nothing more than a power trip.
uhm some evidence backing this claim?there is no hope said:8. Even if one subscribes to the less-obvious aims of the eugenic movement - that is, fashioning the populace into soldiers, laborers, enforcers, in order to control society
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