EveWasFramed
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Opinions/advice?
He's 18, not in school and unemployed. He does not live here, but with his mother. He "visits" here.
Until today, I had been unable to prove it was him taking money. He's been doing it for about a year. He's taken from his mother, me, his father and what makes me the most angry, my eleven year old daughter. Last year, he took $80 of some cash I gave her for Christmas. This year, he took about $65 from her that she'd been saving to buy Xmas gifts with.
I'm not sure how his father is going to handle it, but it's usually a "talk."
I've made it clear that I expect him to make restitution and pay the child back.
His dad points out that he doesn't have a job and already owes everyone money.
Personally, I'd never let him in the house alone again and change the lock codes. I know his dad won't do that though.
Anyone have any suggestions?
He's 18, not in school and unemployed. He does not live here, but with his mother. He "visits" here.
Until today, I had been unable to prove it was him taking money. He's been doing it for about a year. He's taken from his mother, me, his father and what makes me the most angry, my eleven year old daughter. Last year, he took $80 of some cash I gave her for Christmas. This year, he took about $65 from her that she'd been saving to buy Xmas gifts with.
I'm not sure how his father is going to handle it, but it's usually a "talk."
I've made it clear that I expect him to make restitution and pay the child back.
His dad points out that he doesn't have a job and already owes everyone money.
Personally, I'd never let him in the house alone again and change the lock codes. I know his dad won't do that though.
Anyone have any suggestions?