paulo
Well-known member
first off a little info than a question that might seem a little strage but if i dont ask ill never know.
i have some emotional issues (emotionally challenged maybe even )
i never realy know or understand what im feeling, so i have to think about it a lot to place my emotions and figure out what and why.
heres my question.
what are you suppost to feel like when your in a relationship ?
just a normal happy working relationship.
i understand it cant be all wonderfull all the time your gonne have issues and argue but still.
i think i still have the idear that it should be like the love story movie thing, all wonderfull and stuff.
but im pretty shure thats not right.
all that being that close to someone does to me is confuse the hell out of me.
and that really doesnt feel good at all.
the deeper i get into it the more confusing it gets.
ill feel worse when i should be getting happier and closer to someone.
all the emotions will get stronger, i know i should be happy but instead i get more confused couse i dont really know what im feeling.
so i end op feeling awful and that screws me up big time.
i know i have some pretty stong ideas of how things should be.
makes it easier to know what i should be feeling in sertain situations.
if i know what to expect i wont be to surprised about what im feeling.
so if its not like i thought it would be i get confused and back of pretty fast usually.
but if im way off on the love thing ill never get anywhere
cause so far its not like i though it would be.
i have some emotional issues (emotionally challenged maybe even )
i never realy know or understand what im feeling, so i have to think about it a lot to place my emotions and figure out what and why.
heres my question.
what are you suppost to feel like when your in a relationship ?
just a normal happy working relationship.
i understand it cant be all wonderfull all the time your gonne have issues and argue but still.
i think i still have the idear that it should be like the love story movie thing, all wonderfull and stuff.
but im pretty shure thats not right.
all that being that close to someone does to me is confuse the hell out of me.
and that really doesnt feel good at all.
the deeper i get into it the more confusing it gets.
ill feel worse when i should be getting happier and closer to someone.
all the emotions will get stronger, i know i should be happy but instead i get more confused couse i dont really know what im feeling.
so i end op feeling awful and that screws me up big time.
i know i have some pretty stong ideas of how things should be.
makes it easier to know what i should be feeling in sertain situations.
if i know what to expect i wont be to surprised about what im feeling.
so if its not like i thought it would be i get confused and back of pretty fast usually.
but if im way off on the love thing ill never get anywhere
cause so far its not like i though it would be.