What's wrong with me?

[Starshine]

I was in some stage of relationship over the past 15 years. That's half of my life. I was told that I was a pretty good partner in those relationships, but the most recent one ended when we realized our lives were taking us in different directions. I miss being in a relationship.

It's been over a year. I haven't gotten a glance from a guy. I don't understand what's wrong with me. I'm not a runway model, but I've been told I'm cute. I have a great job and I have a college degree. I'm totally independent and I have a good friends.

What am I doing wrong? Help

 

[Abbottron]

Sounds like you are in the exact same boat as myself. I haven't been in a relationship for over 2 years now. After a while, you begin to think there is some wrong with yourself, but I've been told that I'm a good looking guy and great to be around, so what's the problem?

Well, I know what my problem(or problems)are:

1. I don't get out enough to get myself noticed.
2. I rarely break the ice and start a conversation with the opposite sex.

So, if you fall under any of those 2 I have listed, then perhaps it may be the problem you are having. Hope this helped.

 

[LonelyDesert]

Depends on where you live and what you like to do. A lot of it also depends on how your vibe is. For instance I'm friends with most of my ex's, so talking with my last one, I asked her if any guys have asked her out, she said no way, she's giving off the "I'm in a relationship" vibe, I asked her why and she said that she wasn't ready to start a new one. We have been apart for a year now and live 3,000 miles away from each other, so there isn't any reason for it, but still that's her vibe and most guys pick up on it.

 

[Mr. Sir]

Become a runway model.

 

[Badjedidude]

What am I doing wrong?

Well, some more info would help us get an insight into who you are so we can maybe take a stab at answering this.

 

[Starshine]

What am I doing wrong?

Well, some more info would help us get an insight into who you are so we can maybe take a stab at answering this.

I was married for seven years. Before that, I broke up with my long-term boyfriend to date the man who would be my husband. So, 15 years of being in a relationship.

Do thirty year old women get approached by men in general? Do most men assume women are in a relationship and don't approach because of that assumption?

I asked out a friend of mine, but he told me he didn't share my feelings. I tried going out with a friend-of-a-friend and that only lasted two dates. I can handle that run-around, but not coupled with the 'invisible-ness' I've been feeling around men in the general public.

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Become a runway model.

I've only done one runway show, but I guess I could follow up on the two leads I got from it!