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    Feng shui, Vastu shastra or whatever, need help with bedroom

    I've been staying at my aunt's home for half of the year and having trouble with sleeping. My job also didn't go well, even though not very bad. Even though I'm Asian, I'm not a big fan of Feng shui or Vastu shastra but now I have to think about it. Since I was born until I went to college my...
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    to do or not to do?

    This is not really a problem or something bad, just a thing I've been thinking recently and need to let it out. I studied graphic design, but after jumping from job to job now I currently a manga editor. I can't say this is my dream job, but I do love it. The only concern is the lack of...
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    Money and friends, terrible mix?

    @Bob Arctor: Something similar happened to me when I was in highshool. It wasn't about money, though. My classmate went through a hard time, family issue, I was there comforting her, letting her cry on my shoulders. Things got better. And when it came to the trip after graduation, she told me to...
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    Money and friends, terrible mix?

    It's always easier to lose a friend than to make one, I think I'll give her another chance. But this time I won't just give her money, maybe it's time for me to start rambling about my financial issue and that I'm not as rich as she thinks. Yupe, writing down is a good idea, should have done...
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    Money and friends, terrible mix?

    I could lose that money, I've never lent her more than what I'm ready to lose, say 50$. What bothers me now is, should I lose her? Should I still be friend with her? People get problem sometimes, I don't mind helping a real friend. She has earned my trust as a friend, but the way she borrows...
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    Money and friends, terrible mix?

    At first I should say I'm Asian and the amount of money here could seem little to some of you, but my current salary is about 200$. In February 2011 I found a job at a really small company, it's a small company with a director/manager, a cleaner, an accountant, a deliverer, and me - the...
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    How to say "no"?

    Do you think I should say it right now or wait until she asks me again? The last time she asked she said she had to handed in it the day after that, ( this is even more annoying, like I have all the time in the world and always ready for her) so I didn't say anything because as I said she's just...
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    How to say "no"?

    Grrrr, now I'm really piss off! I tried to draw quickly and somewhat carelessly and they say it's good because I can do it fast! So, they still come and say "it'll only take half an hour, right?" And I have 2 opition: "yes", mean "ok, I'll do it". "No", mean they will say something like "well...
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    How to say "no"?

    Thanks for all the replies, I'll try this I just hate when they say she loves it, like they lie to get my help or they think that I'm an idiot. If they just simply say she can't do it, I would feel more comfortable.
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    How to say "no"?

    I'm an Asian; and to Asians, relatives take a big important role. I'm also a graphic designer and I studied art in college. One cousin of mine has a daughter, who had also studied art in an art class for children. The girl (and her family) says that she love drawing so much, but I know she...
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    What is this feeling?

    It's a bit different from last time, maybe just a lighter feeling. Last time I felt I was the only person on earth, too lonely to tolerate. Now, I have some relationships even though we can't often hang out. And I'm planing on taking some activities so it's just the matter of time. Moreover...
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    What is this feeling?

    Hi there, I'm new here and don't know if this is a real problem, but please let me let it out of my head and heart. After graduated, I continued studying while my former classmates went to work. We slowly became strangers for traveling on different roads. First, it was not a problem. I was...
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