Recent content by Scruffy

It's alright to be alone and with friends. Balance both of it. Finding friends is sort of challenging sometimes. Most importantly, don't set high expectations on them. They're humans as well, they have their personal characteristics, like you, you have your own characteristics that are...

Just be patience. In the mean time, just make sure you are thinking positively. The longer you're not thinking positive , the longer you will not think positive. Start now! :) It's same as, if you eat delicious meal everyday, eventually you won't want to eat the lower range meal. My...

Congratulation! Why I congratulate you? It's because many wouldn't know why they are facing this kind of things. It's very difficult for people to know what situation they're actually facing, but you realise it! But, this is life. No one owe you a living. For your case, that two friends of...

I see your reason now. But, still, life is a journey, no matter what happens, you still have to continue your journey . Don't worry too much, it's never too late to get married ;) , though I know many would want to do it earlier, but sometimes our destiny is such that it is like this. There's...

Sorry to hear your story, but, no matter what happen, you still have to keep moving on. Most things in life you can get over through time! :D Just be patient, getting over with some things can take up to 10-20 years sometimes or more or less, but it's worth it. So try being patience...

There's never a problem that leads to the end of the world! Honestly, when I read your post, I saw my past. When I was young, almost everytime my classmates don't team up with me. I can't play basketball and I don't play football but practically majority of my friends are good at this two...

Just call any of your close friends and say go for a few rounds of pool ? ;) Indoor Archery Sport Game? Maybe just shoot 10 arrows? :D Some drinking session with your friends, share your thoughts together? Gym session perhaps? but the free and easy ones of course :)

Don't rush things and don't hope so much from her. Most importantly, BE YOURSELF! :D No one like lies. ;) But don't forget to do your part as a student! :)

Sometimes you just got to put aside logic, and do what feels right! :D You can never be a perfectionist. So don't try being one. The closer you are towards being a perfectionist, the worse your life is. So just follow the flow and utilise what you have currently :D Make yourself happy...

Just do what makes you feel happy.:D You can never control anyone. So don't waste your time trying to control them, the most you can do is play dirty and back stab them or take advantage of them but to do that, you need skills. If you think you will be happy doing bad to them, go ahead, but...

Sooner or later we children will be leaving our home to pursue our goals. That's reality,it's part of growing up. It is the same as birds leave their nest when they grow up. Although it might seem difficult to adapt to the new environment (where your sister left) , you just got to adapt. Life...

Normally, I would prefer Determination over Motivation :D No one owe you anything my friend! So be independent and get what you want. This is life, people don't come to you if you don't go to them. Success won't come to you if you have no effort. Don't find motivation, just BE DETERMINE! :D...

Chill!! Learn to accept rejection!! :) You can't always have what you want. No one owe us anything. If you want something so badly, find a way to get it(not in a bad way) instead of letting it come to you. Suicide is never an option to anything in life. :)

You can't have the best of everything. :D Every family have different lifestyle. So don't compare yours with others. You may never know what other worse problems their children faced with their family but they won't let anyone know because some felt embarrassed & etc. Seeking freedom is one...

Well, there are good and bad for everything. So, learn to cherish the good ones and no one owe us a living, so don't hope for people to comfort you/accompany you when you're alone. They don't owe you anything. :D